Should I be ok with my boyfriend wearing grey sweatpants in public? Like to the gym or class? (Page 2)

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So grey sweatpants season in upon us and I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have gotten into arguments over him wearing grey sweatpants or sweat pants in general. The problem is his dick is way bigger then average and like 5-6 soft so it leaves an obvious outline and he circumsized so the head leaves its own giant outline smh. So u can just see his junk and head all swinging around at the size or a regular hard on but u know he not hard cause it's just flopping around. Don't get me wrong it's a turn on and I love seeing it but I don't need other girls seeing it. We gotton in arguments over it and he got really mad because I said I woudnt care if he was small or average but he not and he said that not fair cause just because he large he can't be comfortable when at the gym or class like every else. He also sayes that I like to show off my body at the club. This is kinda true but not completely (I like to make girls jealous of my bod Im not trying to get male attention I love my bf). However he claims he only trying to be comfy but admitted to liking when people realize he bigger then them. I do kinda see his points tho cause I do wear sweats to class sometimes ans I love to be comfy plus I hate jeans. However I can't get over not wanting other girls to see. I get he's large and he can't hide the buldge all the time like it's seems like whatever shorts he wears shows a giant buldge when he sits down. All shorts seem to do that to him so I don't make a big deal out of it even though I noticed girls staring before. I just feel like he can avoid the whole sweatpants thing so I would like him too. So what should I do girls? Should I let him participate grey sweatpants season or stand my ground? Ps he hates wearing boxer briefs to control it cause he saise it squished him and ruins the point of be comfortable. Also do any of u girls struggle with something similar?

sapphireruby · Answer

I feel like there is a humble brag in there somewhere XD Anyway this is a tricky situation. I can understand feeling insecure, but try to remember that you do the same thing to make other women jealous. You love your boyfriend you said it your self and don't want any male attention and he's the same way right.
Next time your feeling jealous or insecure repeat a mantra in your head to remind you that you have nothing to fear.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Sure it upsets you but the only thing you can do is ask him
to wear a size bigger , i could never go out in public with
a bulge showing in my sweat pants. When i was a teen
i would show my boner through my Athlete shorts and
this one girl would laugh at me when we all played ball
but that happens when your teen and pops boners all
the time but also look at some girls who wear leggings
have camel toes or form fitting shows their ass off.

smiledoll · Answer

Mm well u got to look at it from both pespectives.. maybe u can buy him some sweat pants that are blk or dark grey blue something to not show so much I know what you mean... my ex wore my baby blue pjs and you could see it iam just thank full it wasn't hard it was sleeping.

Anonymous · Answer

Damn. What a read. Can't believe I read all of that. This is really hard situation.

Ok. I understand both you guys feelings on the matter. How about compromise the whole clothing issue? If it's that huge of problem have a whole conversation though I don't think It'll matter much because you mentioned his print shows in other clothing of his as well. . . hmm. Like I said, a nice compromising would do.

The question is 5 days old, hope you guys worked it out though

Gottabsavagee · Answer

Lol well I think you are just jealous :D It's ok if he wears sweatpants, but make sure he wears boxers too...

Confidenceoverload · Answer

LMFAO WHY DID I READ THE ENTIRE THING
AND FUCK IM SUPPOSED TO BE ConfidenceOverload but you know then you say a guy has a soft dick almost the same size as me hard like ffs
And I’m almost 18 so if you don’t like how I talk you can suck hitlers left testy

jadoe · Answer

I do understand but u can't tell him not to wear it. He can't help he's blessed just like a woman who's got big boobs she can't hide it. Just trust he's not flirting can't pick fights over something u both can't control.. I tell my guy to wear his sweats just to see his😍😊

SexyAshh · Answer

Girls wear yoga pants and low cut tops. I see no issue with it. Of course other girls will look but nothing will come out of it

Rfvgtyh · Answer

You sound like you do the same thing if not worse. He’s not even trying to get women attention just trying to be comfy. You’re trying to make people jealous. Isn’t that more wrong?

BlackRoseFairy · Answer

To get over your insecurity try to remind yourself that he chose you for some reason. He could've been with someone else, but he is with you.
So next time you see him in sweatpants, instead of being jealous, try to think that he's your guy... 😉

arabgoddess · Answer

Either he wears a larger size trackies so it's baggy and won't show or he wears compression shorts under the trackies to keep it in.. I've seen guys do that at the gym. It's much easier working out without it moving all over the place

AuroraRoseat · Answer

He can wear whatever he wants just as you should be able to wear whatever you want. People are going to look at HIM crazy, not you. And if they assume things about you because of him, that just shows how stupid they are, doesn't it?

Parakeeta · Answer

Is he comfortable with gay men salivating over his meat?  🤠⛰🤤

zaharaa · Answer

if anything this would probably turn me on more than make me angry at him, fuck it sometimes I show some cleavage and wear tight clothes to show shit off he could do the same type of thing if he'd like

MrHopper · Answer

I would be more worried about his complete lack of style

Dolph_in05 · Answer

You can’t expect him to not wear the sweatpants to feel good about his body, when you wear your club outfits to feel good about your body. They are just pants. Guys see the shape of our tits no matter what kind of shirt we have on.

boggboss · Answer

But what he said is fair you also like to show your body off in clubs even if it's not for other guys other guys will have a look so what he is doing here is the same

Rob171977 · Answer

For me I favor sweatpants much more than jeans or khakis because with jeans the waiste is always to big and thighs hips and crotch (mostly because of my size of my dick) is always so tight and extremely uncomfortable especially for long periods of time. Sweatpants contour to the shape of my waiste while leaving plenty of breathing room in the hips thighs and especially crotch which makes wearing them for extended periods of time much more comfortable

SweetTrish · Answer

sure I am not sure why there should be a problem, I don't think anyone show be able to tell anyone what they want to wear. Have fun with it

SarahsSummer · Answer

That’s really tacky and if I were caught looking, it wouldn’t be out of admiration. I look the same way at a clown. If he insists on wearing sweats, he should have the decency to wear firmer underwear.

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