It's your decision in the end. But you could also have a conversation with your boyfriend about how he feels about it. Hear his thoughts on this subject and then make your own decision.
If he likes you for who you are does it matter if you go or don't.
If you want to break up fast you can cut your hair too. You were pretending to be someone you were not just until you got him as a boyfriend. So you were being fake the whole time.
Just do him a solid and just leave him. Just stop acting and pretending to be someone you are not. He thinks he loves, but when he realize it was just an act it's going to go down hill from there.
Yes you are perfectly entitled to skip the gym if it isn’t your cup of tea you should never feel guilty about choosing not to do something. If fitness is important to him he may be disappointed but never go just because he does, that’s people pleasing at its finest
s Ask your boyfriend. Sounds like you just care about what he thinks, so no point in asking strangers. But yes, it’s fine if you don’t go.
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I think we should be tackling the bigger elephant in the room, don't you want to do something about that self consciousness instead of thinking whether or not you go to the gym when your boyfriend does go?
get in the gy fat ass! i personally would not accept a mate that didn't reciprocate their attractiveness
If you don't want to go, don't go. However, you struggle with your body image but aren't doing anything to change it?
Do you know why you struggle with your body? Is it some psychological aspect? Trauma?
Absolutely.. you don't have to do everything he does.. thats OK..
You should work on yourself esteem though
Who is to judge if what you do is right or wrong?
That's for you to decide.
Its okay you don't go, but you should try or do your exercises at home to keep in shape for yourself so you can feel attractive infront of him.
the choice is yours at the end of the day
It is absolutely okay if you don't go.
Yeah.
Yes it is
