My boyfriend is mad that I went to the gym alone, am I in the wrong?

[Anonymous]

So we’ve always went to the gym together. He has been to the gym alone multiple times in the past when I wasn’t in the mood to go but he gets annoyed when I still end up going alone when he doesn’t want to go. I don’t think that’s fair tbh. He even told me that I can go alone if I want to since he just wants to take the day off but when I actually went, he seems pissed… I feel bad now. He pays for my gym membership, I used to pay for his last year (we kinda take turns) and going alone kinda makes me feel guilty for some reason? Am I in the wrong here?

[slatyb]

No, he is. Make it clear to him that he does not get to control your life. If he doesn't trust you he can leave.

[Asker]

I think he just hates missing out tbh, he knows everyone at the gym so he’s not worried about any creeps or weirdos bothering me. From the way he talks about this it sounds like he feels guilty when I work out more than him even though he’s already jacked… it’s just weird that he’s being passive aggressive about it though, now he’s all like “ok I’m just gonna go alone from now on since you want to go alone” I mean what? I just went alone one time lol

[butterly248]

Ignore him