If you liked a guy who was in shape, would you get mad if he had a gym schedule of his own?

[Theguyoverthere]

I workout 5 days a week and feel like I need to ask this. I go to the gym alone, sometimes may bump into regulars but we only talk for like 5 mins. So it's really just me working out on my own. I have a routine that works for me. So I have gotten in shape and I am still progressing. I've been told I have a "new body."

So I want to know, if you dated a guy who was in shape, would you be annoyed if he had a gym schedule that he committed himself to? Are there girls who would feel "brushed off" if their boyfriend wanted to get a workout in? I'm not talking about classes so I feel like people treat that differently. Part of me feels like girls like in shape guys but don't respect the fact that they need to work at it to keep in shape or they'll lose what they got.

[Turtleluv]

My boyfriend goes to the gym 3 nights a week after work. Since we live an hour apart his hour work out plus shower really cuts into the evening. I work out one of the nights he's free and can't change that. Automatically we know we won't be seeing each other 4 nights out of the week because of this. Yea it's annoying but we're only dating.

f you really like a girl why not just change you schedule so you can make one night free? Work out longer 4 nights of the week so you can date.

[Theguyoverthere]

I could do things like that yea. For me the difficulty lies not only in the workout but the two jobs I have on top of that.

[Turtleluv]

Get a better education so you can get one GREAT paying job, change you eating habits so it will help with the working out and then yea work out longer some night. Yes it matter to woman if you get beyond dating. She will want to see you more and will be hurt if you choose to workout instead. Would you work out with a gf?

[Theguyoverthere]

I'm sorry but you're too judgmental to continue with this.

[Turtleluv]

LMFAO. If suggestion means someone's judgmental then that will also cause relationship issues. I think someone is a bit defensive and doesn't like my SUGGESTIONS because he knows I'm right. I wasn't trying to fight with you. You asked a question and I gave a response. If you didn't like it you didn't have to say anything.

[jamesma87]

Yeah some girls will take it personal and see it as choosing weights over her and not wanting to spend time with her etc.

It's not hard to see how it could be the other way around either right so if it's only once in a while then it shouldn't be an issue but if you find you are constantly having to miss plans with her to workout and stuff, I'm sure she is going to get pretty upset over it

[Theguyoverthere]

That's what I'm wondering. I had a girl come onto me and when I started texting with her she flipped out on me the first night we text because I told her I had to work then go to the gym the next day. I got bombarded with her being pissed off when I offered to try meeting later in the week. I'm wondering if I can find a girl who isn't clingy like that.

[jamesma87]

Yeah there's definitely some girls who will be more understanding. I think earlier on in relationships too girls will take it a bit more harsh because it's early on. I would just say your busy and not say your going to the gym lol

[Theguyoverthere]

Yea I find it ironic that girls will like a toned guy yet be annoyed at putting the time into it.

[ladsin]

well I typically workout twice a day (during week) and haven't really noticed a problem although that may be because at my school we aren't allowed to leave campus during the week anyway

[Theguyoverthere]

Closed campus? I always hated that.

[ladsin]

yeah, it really sucks I talk to my friends at regular colleges and theyre getting it in like multiple times a week and I always have to wait for the weekend ='(

[Theguyoverthere]

Colleges with a closed campus? Did I read that right? I never even heard of a college with a closed campus when I was going for a degree. Hell, most colleges will be online only at the rate we're going. My high school had a closed campus, but not college.

[ladsin]

well it is a military college, but as for public colleges, yeah I'd assume it is very rare

[Theguyoverthere]

Military makes sense I guess. Workout twice a day I'm sure takes a toll but I'm guessing you're going for something specific in there.

[ladsin]

haha not really, just bulking and getting bigger faster stronger for rugby so I can be better for the team XP

[Theguyoverthere]

Bulking is so tough. I'm on a push-pull-leg split. The gains have been super. I suck at sports though.

[ladsin]

haha I gotcha, I just started working out again, last time I was bulking I was taking Somatotropine which is well, lets just say I put on 10lbs of muscle a week it was ridiculous

[Theguyoverthere]

I gotta look that up. Never heard of that before.

[ladsin]

i was talking to a pharmacist and he said it made sense since it is similar to a cross between HGH and Steroids without any real side effects. He said that that is what most major athletes are using now since it isn't considered cheating yet (although he said he didn't understand why it wasn't cheating)

[Theguyoverthere]

This looks a little dangerous. Says you need a prescription for it. I wonder if it will get banned.

[ladsin]

Ah I don't really think it is dangerous but I don't think a lot of things are lol and back when I did it you had to have doctor approval (you didn't need a prescription or anything just their approval) it might have changed since though

[Theguyoverthere]

Yea there's a lot of debate on the safety of growth hormones in general these days.

[Enideqa]

I work out, doesn't matter to me if he works out.

[Theguyoverthere]

Would you feel blown off if he went to the gym and rescheduled with you?

[Enideqa]

No