Why are guys looked at as players if he talks to multiple girls but for girls talking to multiple guys it’s perfectly ok?

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The reason why I talk to multiple girls instead of one at a time is because I’ve been scorned in the past talking to one chick and investing so much time into that one girl. I don’t get girls these days when they say I want a guy who’s in shape, loyal, trustworthy, doesn’t fool around and blah blah blah. But then she gets nervous and has cold feet and says back off. That’s why recently I stopped doing that. By my saying “talking” that doesn’t mean having sex or having sexual convos.

I am looking for the right girl and now that I’m in my 30s my 20s flew by following that pointless method. The reason why I brought this up is because one girl got mad at me yesterday because I was talking to 5 other girls on the side. This is hypocrisy at it finest because girls tend to have a higher male following on social media where dudes will be DM-ing her dick pics, asking her out and etc. Yet why is it wrong if a guy does it *smh*.
Why are guys looked at as players if he talks to multiple girls but for girls talking to multiple guys it’s perfectly ok?
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