Girls should realize guys are rejected often, now, for me, I can't speak on behalf of the intentions of all guys. However, for me, I have to keep moving and asking out different girls, if 20 girls reject me, i'll ask 30. If that sounds cheap or sleazy, I'm sorry but as a guy I am trying to find true love. I am not going to be scared or intimidated or let my youth go by living in constant fear that's not the way to go in life, I've realized that now. I am a guy who is funny, I understand to give space/try to look at the other side of the spectrum (her view), im in law school, I cook good food, I'm in shape and I think I'm decent looking. I can't give up just because girls say no, the likelihood for just average guys is that they will get rejected 80-90% of the time.
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For me I am NOT looking for a one-night stand, I am seeking a real valuable relationship. I mean girls can assume that talking to 15-20 guys at once and going on random dates with multiple dudes is fine. However, if I ask out 20 girls, in my mind I'm thinking either not one will say yes or maybe 1 will and then I can date that 1 girl. Even if 5 girls liked me out of the 20, my way is, talk to those 5 by text or Skype and narrow it down to 1 to meet up.
