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This situation started at the beginning of the school year back in August when Girl 1 was interested in me but I did not know her so I could not recipricate that interest. My friend told me about her interest in me and I communicated to him my disinterest in her becasue of my lack of knowledge about her. I imagine this information was later communicated back to her in some shape or form. Meanwhile, I got interested in Girl 2 because we'd been good friends up until then. Throughout the following months me, Girl 1, and Girl 2 had hung out, talked, and texted with me getting to know Girl 1 better and better as time went on. One day Girl 2 calls me after bringing up wanting to ask me a question. She's nervous the whole time we're talking and I can tell she's trying to ask me out. I end up actually doing the asking Girl 2 out after we went over the whole I like you, you like me exchange. Thing is, after a week of dating I realized I didn't like Girl 2 any longer that the initial feelings that were there weren't there any longer, and Girl 1 seemed like a much better option now that I had gotten to know her.

Now I don't know what to do. The fact that I don't think of Girl 2 as girlfriend material doesn't mean I don't still care for her. I feel like I would hurt her tremendously if I broke up with her and went on to date Girl 1 afterward.

Note 1: G1 and G2 are friends, not on good terms, I have learned, since I've asked out Girl 2 but still friends.
Note 2: This is my first girlfriend and I don't want to fuck up too much. I would say that I don't want to fuck up period, but that's clearly not a possibility at this point.
Note 3: Both girls are great, I just don't feel like I have anything in common with G2. We have different interests, we have little to talk about, and our conversations turn to stupid arguments (not like legit arguments just like: What makes a GIF funny etc.) to fill up space. G1 I can actually ho

Basically would you have rather wanted your first boyfriend/ girlfriend to be 'the one' or would you rather experience heartbreak until you've found 'the one' for you?

The reason why I ask this is because I thought I found the girl who was perfect for me. I thought she was the one.. She was also my first girlfriend (I was 18). We dated for 1.5 years until she broke up with me. (I was just about as perfect a boyfriend could get and I was called 'husband material', but whatever. Distance and another guy got in the way.)

I've been going through heartbreak and though it sucks, I'm glad to experience it because it'll make me a better boyfriend for the next go-around. It has made me stronger and more mature in the long run. Though I loved her and wanted her, I'd rather experience the heartbreak. Id also rather be able to learn from my mistakes so when a great girl comes along, I can give her my all.

What would you choose?