Search Results: getting attached

How to deal with a flirt?

this boy ignored me for a while but all of a sudden he finds me attractive. he flirted with me and I find him very charming and cute. I feel I am getting attached even though I know he isn't serious and likes to make...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, Am I wasting my time?

I had a friend with benefits that I hadn't talked to for a year contact me out of nowhere. He told me he wasn't the relationship type and i was getting too attached so I cut him off. He was also an asshole about a few...

cluelessindc

Xper 2 Age: 44

Relationships

We acted like we were together, but she says she wants to be single. What should I do?

So about 10 weeks ago one of my close friends told me she liked me and proceeded to break up with her boyfriend as things weren't going great. I soon after broke up with my girlfriend as I was also not feeling it, and it...

ourlastnight

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

We're pretty much together, but she wants to be single. What should I do?

ourlastnight

Xper 4 Age: 28

Other

I only want serious answers. Could someone help me figure out this?

First of all I don't want any critics. I want a proper analyse... I feel that I don't emotionally get attached to someone. I see everyone falling in love and I feel like it is just us making ourselves to like/have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

GUYS!!! What's does he really mean? Girl have you ever been?

I was dating this guy for 3mo, we live in different states (2hrs away) throughout the 3mo we developed a real cool friendship & connection (i hate saying connections b/c it's so cliche) anyways we vibe off each other...

FashionistaChick

Xper 7 Age: 35

Relationships

So I have a friend with benefits that is effecting my emotions?

So i dont know what to do, about 4 months ago I made a pact with this guy, we both agreed that we would be friends with benefits, no emotions attached. Im now getting bugged about his other sexual encounters which he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Getting mixed signals, help?

I met a girl on POF a couple months ago, and it seemed like we really hit it off. We text and talk on the phone almost daily. The problem comes in that we work opposite shifts, in opposite directions from each other....

dealermike

Xper 4 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Getting Atttached?

I was in a fling with this guy and I grew attached. By the time it ended I was infatuated and I ended up telling him how I felt (huge mistake). He replied and told me that its not my fault I caught feelings and that I'll...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

A Visit to the Intensive Care Unit of a Hospital

You hear your phone ring in the dead of the night. It is the voice of a close relative or friend reduced to stuttering out a grim reality that has devastated them with shock. ‘....’ has been rushed to the hospital....

gobsmacked3

Editor Age: 54

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Guy's Behavior

Does he use me to feed his ego or does he like me?

Okay there is this boy. When we are in class together we talk and laugh. We have fun and he teases me and tells things about himself, but when I see him outside the class like in the hallway, he ignores me. When I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I matched with my ex on tinder?

We broke up years ago for circumstances that were completley out of our control. We both admitted how messed up we became after the breakup. We both admitted how madly in love we were with each other. We both admitted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I feel like I'm not getting anywhere in life. What can I do?

I'm 19, living with my boyfriend and his parents, we have a 3 month old baby girl together. I finished one year of college for a major I'm not entirely sure I want to pursue nor know how to pursue it. I took a break bc of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why Emotional Cheating Is Worse Than Physical Cheating

*taps mic* is thing on? Hey all! It’s been awhile since I’ve written a Take. I don’t really have an explanation for my hiatus other than life. I plan to start writing on a regular basis again though so stay tuned! The...

CHARismatic110

Editor Age: 38

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Break Up & Divorce

What should I do in a long distance relationship, confused stressed and sad?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months he’s 23 I am 21 we live and hour apart the first couple of months we saw each other a couple time a week , about 3 months ago he’s gotten a better paying job wich is...

Sonya95

Xper 4 Age: 51

Guy's Behavior

Does this guy have feelings for me?

So I met a guy in work. We hooked up and ended up sleeping together. After we slept together 3 times he told me that he has a girlfriend back in his country. I was very mad. But our fling was meant to be for fun and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

10 Common Cognitive Distortions that Contribute to Negative (or Positive) Thinking

Hello everyone, it's Toad-1 with a new mytake. I should admit right now that I, probably like many people on GAG, suffer from either depression, social anxiety, or some other mental illness. The list I am presenting here...

Toad-1

Guru Age: 42

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Girl's Behavior

I am not sure if I am reading the signs wrongly?

I am currently in my college Freshman year. Few months back, I met a girl who was attached at the time in a class. I was kind of into her but since she was attached, my interest sort of died down. We still talked and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Can men and women just be friends?

Do you think men and women can carry on a friendship, including flirting and general conversation, without someone getting attached?

wildchild869

Xper 4 Age: 34

Dating

Don't know what I am doing or what the heck I am feeling for this girl?

Ok so there is this girl that I have gotten really attached to, and started catching feelings for. We went out once, but would hang out almost everyday and have gotten close to. She is the only girl outside of my family,...

Anonymous

(36-45)