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Hey guys and girls I wanted some advice and maybe after reading a little bit about my situation you might have a opinion on it im hoping
I'm Italian and have had US citizenship for 9 years now and 7 months ago I met my current girlfriend whilst travelling Europe with my friends, we met in London but she is from Russia and I ended up spending the rest of my trip in London with her because I got on so well with her and she said she would love to see me again so we both decided she would come back to the US with me which she did, she was given 90 days to stay in the US without a permit or visa and she said after 90 days she would apply for a work visa because she wanted to stay with me, she has said a few times that she hates it back in Russia and living there isn't ideal and she would love to stay in America with me, she has talked about marriage with me already and said she feels ready to tie the knot with me which surprised me because we hadn't known eachother that long when she first brought this up and as months have gone on she is still in the US she applied for a work visa and started a job here but her visa finishes next month and now she is back talking about getting married, her friend from Russia said to me that she is manipulative and warned me I should be careful because she has done things before with foreign men and when I told her about this she said the girl who told me this is no longer her friend and is jealous because she is stuck in Russia still and now im confused I don't know what to think, I think im being a little naive because I do have feelings for her and I don't want to believe that she could be using me

Does it sound like she is using me for a visa to you or do you think im over-thinking this?

Ok ladies and gentleman... especially those of you with some years of experience and relationship experience. No offense to the 18-24 year olds, but they think a bit differently than us 30+

I will quickly give you background on my relationship with this girl. I met her 6 months ago in a professional work environment and gave her my business card to call me. She contacted me 2 weeks later and we met for coffee.. We proceeded to meet several times where I began to feel even more attraction to her and I kept hitting on her. She told me because I was married that she was reluctant to date me. She put me in "The Friend Zone".. We went out a few times and I didn't give up. Long story short, she and I came to a head one day when I was pressuring her to go out with me and she said "Sam, I don't feel an attraction to you that way, and I'm still getting over my ex who I loved a lot and went with for 5 years, I have no room in my heart for you!"

I walked away for 5 days with no contact and then one day, she blew up my cellphone with texts wanting to see me. We began to date and had sex that night.. She seemed to enjoy our time together and as friends we got on great! The sex was amazing, we did some very nasty things that we both enjoyed and first time for both of us! She then began to tell me she just wants to be "Friends with Benefits" as she just doesn't love me the way I seem to be into her!

After about two months of dating, her sister who is a total head case and lives in Salt Lake City with their parents found out about us and told her parents. My girl is 32, and the sister is 35.. has 4 kids and her husband abandoned her.. she seems miserable and continues to go to my girl (her younger sister) for support and friendship... they're on the phone all the time and texting non-stop! The sister told the parents (who are both ministers in a church) about