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It's not that I don't trust him at all, I really feel comfortable around him and he is the most patient person ever. He told me several times already that he wanted me to know he there for me if I need him. He never pushed me into talking about my feelings but he sure feels when something is bothering me.

He is open and doesn't have problems with talking about his life and how he feels. Me on the other hand, I'm a closed book. I've a hard time talking about my problems because:
1) I don't want to randomly tell him I'm feeling bad and ruin his good mood
2) I've learned to deal with my own problems in the past and kind of still have that mentality

I'm not saying I've dealt with "a lot" because everyone has their own kind of problems. But I don't see why I should bother him with things that are "haunting" / bothering me.

Here is the situation: You have been with your partner for 10 mths. You recently broke up for 3 weeks and have been back together for just 3 weeks also. The reason behind the split was due to your partners unhealthy lifestyle which was affecting the relationship in many ways namely they were being secretive and lying to you to cover up their issue.

Since getting back together your partner has made an active effort to get their life back on track and although it's only time that can help you learn to trust again you have been trying to be encouraging and supportive as well.

However your partner gets upset over something you say and overreacts and he refuses to try and see your point or even take on board how you feel. He then proceeds to sit at the dinner table with his 2 young kids, your young child and you but won't eat anything, instead he chooses to sulk, roll his eyes at you when you ask why he isn't eating and rudely state that he has lost his appetite.

He then once kids are in bed, goes to sit outside to ignore you for hours, you go out after a while to see if he wants to talk and he still refuses to see your point and just argues, raising his voice at you, swearing at you and telling you to fuck off. Bear in mind you don't live together and this is your home, him and his kids were just staying for the weekend.

You walk away because there is no point in continuing the argument. You go to bed, he eventually comes up and grabs his pillow from your bed and goes to sleep with his son on the spare bed instead.

You are so mad that he is acting this way after only being back together for 3 weeks that you decide to send him a text message :

I can't handle your Shitty attitude and I'm not interested in starting 2018 off like this, you ignoring me, shouting at me and telling me to fuck off in my own home so perhaps just go home tomorrow. Go and enjoy your New Years Eve with your kids, I will do the same with my daughter then their will be no further arguments.