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My parents are traditional and I’m at that age where they’re pushing me to find a girl and get married.

I’ve always wanted to get married but Lately I have my doubts. I’ve been on a couple dates with some beautiful women and that’s all they had, nice faces. My relatives/friends even warned me that there are some women that will want to be with you for all the amazing luxuries I have. My inheritance will go in a trust but I myself am ultra ambitious and determined to excel in my career and family businesses. Things like sharing my current assets I’ve worked hard for with someone else gives me a lot of anxiety. Prenuptial agreements don’t necessarily offer much security.

I feel like I have it all as a man. Yet it’s so hard to find the right girl, I’m already giving up. Is there any point? Should I just let it happen naturally? I’m a very ambitious guy, I want to succeed on my own/by myself. I’ve also seen men just mellow out when they get married.

I know I definitely want kids and I definitely don’t want to become lonely. It’s just that, I really hate the vibes I get off the majority of women I meet. The girls that tend to be really nice are just randomly walking about and I have a hard time finding them.

We all worry about whether we are being led on by someone or being used. With the ambitions/visions I have in life I can’t afford to have someone messing about with me.

I am 25 years old, and for the past several years, I have been in the lowest point of my life.

I have no credible talents. I still live at home, and I am on disability. I only receive $850 a month from social security after medicare deductions. Once I turn 26, I will lose my parents' insurance.

I have never had a girlfriend. I am really short for a male, with a height of 5'6. I have failed when it comes to women. I was even arrested for stalking for trying to win a girl's heart. It is a long story. I now have a criminal record for stalking and harassment.

I am terrible with women. In addition, I cannot get over a woman's romantic past. Any romantic bonds she had during her youth, whether that be college, high school, or middle school, I cannot get over. If I meet a woman now, I can never say we knew each other during our youth. Meanwhile, I have friends (and even my parents) that can say they are with someone they loved from when they were young.

I am in university right now for web app development, but most people don't need a college education for that.

I cannot seem to get any jobs or internships in the field that I am pursuing, and I have been studying and coding for 3 years now. I feel I have nothing to really show for it still.

I am having second thoughts whether this field is right for me. I don't know exactly what is right for me anymore.

I used to be an EMT, but I had to voluntarily surrender my license due to my criminal convictions.

I have only had sex with one woman in my life, but it was pity sex with a high school girl. Both virgins. She was 16; I was 20. That is the best I was able to get with an attractive girl.