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People without the grace of God are full of egoism, mind tricks, silent treatments, manipulation, derranged thoughts, revengefulness etc. and the relationship fails eventualy. godly people have humility and always strive for true love (not lust), always forgive, always understand, always wait, dont care if their opinion isn't always first, so things can't fail with them if they are both deeply spiritual and not only appear so. Modern people change 30 parntners like that is gonna change anything. if the person isn't transformed from the inside out it will hopelessly seek the roots of its misery in external sources.

This intrigues me. My boyfriend has fallen in love with past girlfriends like within the first month. To me that can't possibly be love, maybe lust or a crush but not love. He said with all his girlfriends he felt it was love within the first month because he thought about them 24/7 and couldn't wait to see them each time. He is 37 and this was happening only a year ago so it's not like he is some clueless teenager. In fact these were girls that I could not imagine would be serious relationship material which is what he was looking for. The last girl he fell for was within 3 weeks and somehow envisioned a future with her and called her his future wife, this is a girl that didn't have her shit together and had just come out of Alcohol Rehab, I on the other hand have my shit together, have a job, am a responsible parent and without boasting am the actual girl you would want to marry. So we have been together 6 months and he told me he loved me by the end of the first month and also calls me his future wife. Obviously our love is probably more real and believable compared to his previous relationships which all lasted less than 3 months. Strange