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Coworker A and B are well liked amongst everyone and both good friends of mine. Coworker A has been at this job for 6 years. Coworker B started 4 months ago and this is her first job. Coworker A and B are both shy but they are definitely shy around each other. Coworker A was playing mind games with B’s emotions. Coworker B got sick of it (going on for 2 months) and asked Coworker A out but coworker A was caught off guard and said he was not interested. A immediately felt bad and regretted the decision. B was distancing herself from him all last week and when they did talk she joked around harshly and her whole demeanor changed. A got feelings for B and B was acting like a complete bitch and A was being nice and doing things for her. A got fed up with her shitty attitude towards him and found her twitter and she made tweets wanting to plot revenge on a coworker that nobody likes (all she was gonna do was hide her stuff around the room, really stupid childish stuff nothing major) he screenshotted and printed out her tweets and took them to HR. She was on the brink of being fired anyways because she was continuously late (she got several warnings before her write ups). Coworker A then blocked her on everything. Coworker B got fired yesterday and she found out it was A who ratted her out. Coworker A shouldn’t have gotten involved but he called it revenge. Everybody is mad at A For saying anything. Yes it was wrong but she was a good coworker who rarely caused trouble plus nobody liked that other girl. Coworker A now feels bad for what he did but the damage is done and he’s actually sad that he won’t see B again. He has tried apologizing and messaging B but she’s not responding to him. She is also blaming herself on how she handled the situation after initially being rejected (being a bitch to him all last week), I think they are both too emotionally immature and their personalities are too similar for this to work.

I met this guy in high school about 15 years ago. He was too scared to really date me, because I am taller by about 4 inches, loved to wear heels, and am much hotter than him. He thought his friends might laugh at him. He kept thinking what would they think seeing an ugly dwarf next to a tall, hot, supermodel? He flirted pretty heavily though. Years later he messaged me on Facebook. He apologized for being an idiot and wanted to try things out. We were together off and on for 3 years, and he still ended up being hung up on how I looked next to him. He kept whining about how he wished he could marry me, but he just didn't feel like he was good enough or something.

I got sick of it, moved on to someone else, last time he came onto me in that way I told him that he sucked in bed and relied on his nice penis too much with not enough of anything else. Anyways, it hit home and he left me along for about 2 years. He met a short, very fat, sickly, ugly girl. I'm only a little shallow, but she's outside of my comfort range. He married her 2 years after he met her.

Here's where it gets weird! He started messaging me while they were still newly weds! I just can't comprehend why after 2 years of not speaking. They got married just over a year ago, and he randomly sends a wave, a hi, a how are you doing every couple of months. He's also mentioned that we should hang out. I can't imagine why when he's a newlywed.

We are in the same college now. He saw me today and seemed way too intimate int he way he said hi and hugged me a bit too long twice, and asked me to message him.

Does this seem like normal behavior, or does it seem like unresolved feelings and some sort of hang up? I have lots of male friends, and this seems abnormal.