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I believe that parents who feed the kids nothing but junk food are guilty of child neglect. I believe that parents who would allow a ten year old boy to become 16 stone and never let the child to exercise should have their kids taken from them and thrown into jail as they are clearly guilty of child abuse. Who else agrees?

We all know how male child killers and male child molesters are treated but I wonder if the same is true for the female child killers and molesters. Some women told me that female child killers and sex offenders receive more brual beatings and more hatred by inmates than their male counterparts because the majority of female inmates were once victims of child abuse and child molestation themselves and especially because the child killer and molester is a female herself inside their prison, the other female inmates treat it as a hyporcrisy and sense of betrayal of their own gender since women are expected to be maternal and protective of children (at least this was what one woman told me).

Women often say how men have so much easier than them because of not being paid as much as men in the workforce, goingt through periods and pregnancy (Something that men have absolutely no control over because that's just a part of biology/nature), not being able to serve in frontline battle of the military, being cat called on the streets and so on.

They disregard the fact that all men have to deal with much more responsibilities in life than women. We deal with higher expecation of how we should behave and live our lives. We face a much more rigorous and severe consequences for the same exact crimes committed by women. Men who are homosexuals or bisexuals suffer far more hostility from society than women are homo or bi. There are absolutely NO shelters or help provided for men who are domestic violence and sexual abuse victims. Women can be whoever they want (regardless of gender roles) without being ridiculed and frowned up on in this day and age while men will be frowned upon for it in this supposed "equal" and advanced era of the good ol' US of A. No one would ever give a shit about an under-aged boy's well-being while people will be so quick to be very protective of an under-aged girl from real world danger such as adult sex offenders and murderers.

I wonder. In my experience, at least on the internet, I have ran into a couple of very judgmental and self-righteous women. In fact, I recall being on a forum discussion (outside of GAG) where 1-2 women were all upset that my feelings towards domestic violence (spousal abuse) isn't exactly as strong as their nor having the same exact moral viewpoints as them and went off on me like a frustrated child throwing a tantrum. I ended up kindly telling them to fuck off for their rude attitude and strawman falllacies (they assumed that I am either a "Misogynist' or a person who never cares for DV victims when I never implied that I don't care for them at all). This is absolutely not to attack all women but this is just my personal experience with them, particularly on the internet.

Just watched an episode of "Blacklist" last night, featuring a serial killer who targetted people who physically abused either their spouse or their children. His MO was to drug and kidnap his victims, strap them to a table in an environment akin to a doctor's office, and inflict on them exactly the same injuries that they inflicted on the person they had abused, down to the last broken bone. Once done with them, he would call the hospital and have them come and try to save his victim (hence his name), but they invariably died of their injuries before they could be saved. He forced his wheelchair-bound mother (who physically abused him in his youth) to witness every one of his "procedures."

Question: in your opinion, should this guy really have been stopped?

I ask because as a man who was sexually abused as a very young teen, the very first people who actually cared for my physical and emotional well-being are a few of my female friends. A lot of women in my experience have sympathized my pain that I've bottled up inside of me my whole life more than the men. The guys on the other hand, are just a bunch of insensitive assholes who question my "manhood" for being a sexual abuse victim. I never knew being a bad ass "real man" is far more important to them than another fellow human being's well-being. Oh well. That's just life and that's how the card is always played.