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We had been dating for a year, but things were not official until few months ago. He only started to meet my friends/family when we became an item. Now that things are official, I thought he would be open-minded about meeting his circle. Sadly, it seems like
he’s not very into inviting me to meet his circle of people. But all his friends and family knows about me, and that we are in a relationship.

I met his family during Christmas holiday, but it was kind of forced. He initially did not plan to include me. I was kind of not happy about that because he already met my family during the holiday. It’s also lockdown over here, and it has been depressing. He also had met both my best friends. He mentioned his parents got me a gift too. I gave him a chance to invite me by asking him if I’m coming... since “we” bought the gifts together. I also paid half and my name was on the card.
The way he responded was basically saying if I want to go, then go. It wasn’t him really “wanted” to include me at first. Things will get really upsetting and awkward if he still does not invite me. In the end, he felt I was being awkward , and he encouraged me to go. I met his family, and it was really great!

He was having a zoom meeting with his friends. He was the one who initiated for me to come quickly say Hi to see meet them online. After a chat for few minutes, they mention to quickly meet up on the weekend for a birthday. I assumed that I was invited because his friends were saying “you guys”. Yesterday, he mentioned that he was texting his friends what “HE” will be doing tomorrow for the birthday with his friends. It doesn’t sound like he was including me.

On top of everything, he is currently staying at my place. He had his parents to come pick him up at my place, and having me stay at home doing nothing. His parents probably would of find it weird and ask about the girlfriend. I am assuming his friends are picking him up from my place tomorrow. How do I talk to him about this?

I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 2 years now, and it’s been pretty crazy on his end. I haven’t done anything necessarily as bad as he has to me like lying and whatnot. Anyway though, I decided to visit him on the 26th of this month because he wanted to see me. We were making plans the whole week and decided that we were going to meet in the middle because I was uncomfortable driving the whole way there and back. But, 6 hours before the day arrived, he backed out the plan because he said he didn’t have the money to do it. I told him I’ll give him money, basically anything he needed to ensure that we meet in the middle but he declined everything. I was obviously upset because he had so many days to consider it and he canceled over something I could’ve helped him with.

I rely heavily on people’s words, if they say they’ll do something then I expect them to do it especially with my boyfriend. I feel like he wouldn’t have done that for a good friend or anyone else really so I don’t know why he did that to me. I did try to talk to him about it along with other issues like him blaming his behavior on things he shouldn’t, why saying “calm down” is very ineffective, and saying I’m “complaining” when I was clearly trying to discuss issues with him. Am I crazy? Should I have just let everything go? You tell me.