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Okay so this is a little complicated, it just kind of happened, so yeah. I'm engaged to the father of my two children. However, we have come to a point where although we aren't at eachothers throats, we have realized that we don't really like each other in any romantic way. So we ended up seeing other people although we still live together and everyone in our families think we are still a couple. I have a friends with benefits now but we keep things secret because of my family and my kids.

I have been starting to get jealous of the idea of my friends with benefits sleeping with other women, so I finally came to the point where I felt like I needed to end things before I got hurt. I was getting jealous of the idea of him sleeping with other women because he is in a band and I watch him play at bars and there are always women flirting with him so I assumed he would probably sleep with at least some of them. One of them even kissed him although he didn't really reciprocrate. Anyway, it was driving me nuts having to sit there and watch, while I couldn't really do much since our deal is keeping it DL.

So I told him that I was getting jealous and it got to a point where I didn't want to go see him play because it was driving me nuts watching him with all these other women. Then he told me that I shouldn't be jealous because he didn't want any of them, that even though he may have thought some were attractive that I was the person there he wanted the most and that he gets jealous of the fact that he can't touch me in front of people and that we have to keep things secret. Then he told me not to be jealous because there's no need to worry about there being other women.

I just am wondering if we are actually more than friends with benefits or if he's just good at convincing me to keep sleeping with him. Thanks.