Search Results: Do you think I am doing the right thing or I am

I usually only have one at a time but can say that I’ve tried almost everyone. Paid and free, I’ve tried them throughout the course of the past few years. The most recent one I used was Hinge, I have it on pause so I can’t match with anyone. I just think it’s frustrating that I’ve been on them but have had absolutely no luck. I’ve met up with men but most of the time it leads to no connection or someone eventually ghosts. The ghosting usually happens prior to ever meeting up but still. I’m told I’m cute but clearly men think differently. I decided that the apps work for everyone but me so it’s best to stop using what clearly results in no success. They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting the same results. I don’t expect anything from this break and hope I don’t cave in. I don’t go out anyway but what do you all think? Do I just have bad luck with the apps?

So there was a guy worked with had quite a bit of respect for.

He made a comment that implied sexual interest that, when you get right down to it, implies rather low opinion of and/or little to no respect. How can a man already in a relation, after all, more or less propositioning someone else legitimately respect either woman involved? I think it hurts worse cause I did absolutely nothing - no dressing skimpy, no flirting, etc. - that would imply I'd be interested in casual sex/a fling anyway & the way he did it as he implied good in bed was as if he was doing me a favour with the implied offer/invite.

I didn't take it to HR. I couldn't be bothered. Just left. The job was a meaningless podunk minimum wage thing that I was far over qualified for and even if had stayed wasn't worth mention on my resume as it'd undermine the rest, I was already planning to leave before probation ended anyway.

But when I attract the attention of more successful, and in relation far more decent, men it really shouldn't bother me so much (I don't care for such things having my own money, etc.). And I look back & it's like... what the fucking hell did I do to deserve such disrespectful behaviour?