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On Saturday i girl that i was looking at came up to me while playing pool with my friend and brother and she made sure i was on her team and she was a really lovely girl and i liked her and she liked me a lot but she told me that she was engaged to someone else for a year but she kept playing with her ring and wanting off and she said if it wasn't for the fact she was engaged to her bf then she would be mine.
and we continued getting know each other and we went to a club and we danced and played more pool and then she was flirting and holding my hand and i wanted kiss her but knew she was engaged. but the questions i keep asking myself are
1. do i keep pursuing her?
2. is cheating because i am single but she engaged?
3 . do i just be her friend?
4. do i leave her alone and do nothing?
5. do i let marry this guy because i really like her?

So there's this girl who joined work a while ago, my work is male dominated so she is one of the few girls in our dpt At first she was really warm cause of her habit of being social and nice. I didn't mistake it for flirting but i was the only guy she talks to regurarly as others were not her type and dont know how to approach a girl honestly, so with time im like i like this girl and she may not be the most beautiful but i get attracted to the personality, we share some laughs and jokes then she began staring at me more and at the beginning she asked for my number which was weird, i also didn't mistake it as if she's interested in me. So for the first couple of months i helped her in everyway and i was a complete gentleman opening the door for her and carrying her heavy laptop for her, one day she's like you smell good and kept giving me compliments. She knew i liked her but there are days she gives me the notion that she wants her space and i never did invade it i was just being there for her so i kind of pulled away, I've had my own share of heartaches so i was cautious going ahead, in other words i played it safe from day 1 but i sometimes i think that maybe im too kind or too there for her, sometimes she ignores messgaes which are completely work related or just asking about her, and other days she is the complete opposite, we talk a lot and one day she said she has a friend who is moving over to our town and he as with her at college. I kinda knew that maybe she was in a relationship but sometimes she shows me that she's not in one. One day i asked her for coffee before her leaving for new years, and she said she was busy and i figured that she wasn't, anyways i was cold with her and she kinda got it and asked me if there's something wrong with me and she was worried, that day she's like yeah that guy i told u about has a problem in shipping his car he's asking me nicely and i wish u can help, we had a relationship in college and im telling u cause ur like my brother?