Search Results: dating an older girl

Background of my question: my older brother started dating a girl when they were around 15. At that time, she was one of those classic pretty, very popular, very extrovert and also very slutty girls every school has. Our parents and family were not enthusiastic, especially because she was known for being easy.

In in the meanwhile, she finished school, got an ok but far from dreams job as a secretary, and started having hormonal problems which turned her into a giant whale in the turn of a few years. She became obese like the severely obese you see in documentaries about obesity. She still had a pretty face but it was literally swimming in fat. She tried diets and sport but there was nothing to do as it was hormonal.

Our parents as well as our grandparents and all the family started being very critical of my brothers relationship with her, which lasted almost 15 years (they broke up recently). They used to say he kept her around only for convenient sex, because he couldn’t possibly find her attractive for real, they aslways talked about her with embarassement and kept saying he was too handsome to end up with a girl like that. I honestly sometimes thought that as well.

I believe their problem was that their son would look like a loser for dating someone so obese that she would look undesirable in everyone’s eyes.