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For three years I have been consumed in depression so bad I have not dated anyone at all, not even a kiss. I just started dating a young woman whom came after me, I wasn't even thinking about dating still. We've had two dates and on the 2nd we were about to have sex. When I stopped her because I was nervous at and had performAnce anxiety from abstaining for three years. She asked why and I said, "lets take it slow it'll be worth it. I want to take things slow." She wasn't super pleased. I like this girl a lot. I'm messing up tho and feel like my secret is keeping me from being me/holding me back. Should I tell her the truth and explain it all to her? I'm worried it might be too heavy a concept and she feel like my happiness is on her shoulders because she's the first person I've held hands with, let alone had sex with in 3 years. Or do I roll with my b. s. on-the-spot lame cover up? Help please..

I mean for a serious relationship. A guy age 25+ dating an 18 year old girl. She might still be in high school or fresh out. This is not just about sex, this is about the relationship as a whole.
He might even be waiting until marriage for sex and he's dating an 18 year old because she hasn't given her virginity away.
Maybe he doesn't want kids until much later and wants someone who will still be young and fertile when he's ready.
Whatever the reason, there is no ill tensions involved in this scenario, the guy genuinely wants a real relationship.

I’m 30 and I find myself more interested in women 10-12 years my junior. It could be a result of never having a childhood. So I tend to be immature for my age. I never got a chance to date n enjoy my youth as a youngster. My dad was super restricting in my youth never letting me leave the house or do anything. By the time I left and had freedom. I had no idea how to interact or communicate with people. So I could never get a date. Dating girls my age have way more experience than me. They’re always frustrated how immature and naive I am. This doesn’t seem to be an issue when they’re younger.

So works better when I date a super young girl. I feel like I’m making up for lost time (feeling like a youth again). I also look younger. I’m almost 31 n people look at me n guess 21-25.

My brother and I had a debate the other day. He said it is disgusting for men to date women who were much younger than them. He made the argument that "while he was in the 5th grade she was just being born". So I said "Well it isn't a 10 year old dating a newborn these are adults".
I think as long as it's between consenting adults, the age doesn't matter. Even if it's a 90 year old man dating an 18 year old girl, even if I have some criticisms.

I didn't mention older women dating younger guys because that doesn't have nearly as much stigma around it.

I said guys ages 28+ because any guy younger than that is dating a girl 10+ years younger needs a visit from Chris Hansen.