Search Results: going back to an ex

Attempting to reconcile with commitment-phobic ex. What are my chances of success and what advice should I keep in mind?

Hi good people. I just broke up with a guy who I had been talking to for almost a year (10 months). When I say we were talking, I mean we started out with the understanding that we had amazing chemistry and connection,...

M1989

Xper 2 Age: 36

Was I being too clingy or was it something else?

Long ago my crush started ignoring me out of the blue. He was avoiding eye contact with me and he wouldn't talk to me. The very next day was the same behavior. He saw me and I saw him he hid from me. He treats me like im...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I am getting attached and I can’t handle it help?

I’ve been friends with this guy for over a year now and a lot of things happened (him going back to an ex and then her sister etc all about girls ) until he finally admitted that he loves me and wants a relationship with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A letter to my mother

I premise this isn't a proper myTake, but it's more of an impotent outburst I have to put down somewhere. I can't tell this directly to my girlfriend because she's dealing with enough crap already. I can't give this...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

17 15 See More

IS IT TOO LATE?

He is 25 and this is his first relationship ever. I'm 23, and my previous relationship was very toxic. My ex was emotionally and physically abusive. He lied to me a lot, very manipulative, and cheated on me. It made me...

maya01

Xper 3 Age: 30

What is he thinking/doing?

Me and this guy had a thing. Very close to dating... it ended badly with him telling me he wasn’t sure of his feelings and me getting upset. We then stopped talking. One day I decided to make things right. We talked here...

Anonymous

(25-29)

friends with benefits blurring the lines. Does he have feelings for me?

I'm in a situation where I am newly seperated from an abusive marriage and I have a friends with benefits that I have been spending time with for the last 4 months. I thought it was going to be a experimental thing and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why dating a friend was a lot more surprising than I thought it would be

I promise this won't be long. Tonight is the first night in a while, I'm spending at my place, after days, weeks of staying non-stop at my girlfriend's place because she would get upset if I tried to leave. And since...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

13 13 See More

He cried to me but won’t commit to me, help?

I’m in a very unconventional “relationship” to say the least. I’m 4 months pregnant with another man’s child (he’s not involved at all per his choice and we have no contact) yet I unexpectedly met and have been dating...

womanoflife

Xper 4 Age: 27

Is it normal for a guy to not allow his significant other to talk to other men?

My husband and I both have had rocky relationships in the past, but I don't use that as an excuse to act crazy. I don't police his life and he can talk to whomever he wants. However, when we speak about me and what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I in an abusive relationship?

My (ex) boyfriend doesn’t think I’m good enough for anything. He belittles me and puts me below others. While we were together he never wanted me going out, having friends, or dressing a certain way. He doesn’t like other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What am I doing wrong? (Relationship troubles)?

Well to start, im 19 and am about to be 20, now people say thats "too young" or whatever but I don't care. I've never had a girlfriend, in all twenty years of my life, I just dont know whats wrong with me. Things have...

thedemonhellcat

Xper 3 Age: 26

I don’t know what to do?

so long story short my girlfriend went back to college and broke up with me to focus on school about 2 months after going back. said she still loved me and such just had a hard time balancing stuff. i then find out she is...

kaito11

Xper 5 Age: 27

Going on a date without enough cash?

Hey there, Here is my story. There is this girl sending me messages for six months now, clearly interested in going on a date with me. The thing is, she is very weird in not a good way - quite rude with people in general...

Hoggar

Xper 3 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Have you ever helped out an ex with their issues?

Even if it's not easy, recently I have also started to meet with my ex to help her out with her issues and we are slowly getting her life back on track, and I have to admit the bulk of the merit goes to her and her will...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

Guys, how do you show a guy your standards when you do not like his behavior without it being off putting?

Last December, after 6 months of no contact, my ex shoot me a text out of the blue to which I did not reply. Last month, it was me who sent him a text to which he replied. All I asked was how he was doing. We texted about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex told me to go sleep with other people, I did, he called me all night to ruin the date?

so he leaves me and we have an argument (like couples do) he tells me he’s confused on his emotions and doesn’t wanna hurt me so he wanted to take a step back. I, listening to the words he’s saying and not the ones i...

Anonymous

(25-29)