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I want to keep it as anonymous as possible.

I am East Asian. I dated a Vietnamese girl and I truly loved her and made sure she knew that. I was convinced she did too. Her parents are very strict about her going out and meeting other guys. (we are both undergrad college age and live with parents)

I was confident about meeting her parents and I did met them on 3 different occasions. Twice during holiday party at their place and once, I had a dinner with her family. (her, her dad, mom, her brother, me). To me, all of them liked me. Her family, her parents' friends, their kids, her friends etc. She also told me that I was the second boyfriend she introduced to her parents and they didn't like the first one. (she had many many boyfriends before that she kept secret from her parents). She said her parents liked me but only complained that I wasn't Vietnamese.

(3 months in)
Everything was good, honeymoon stage kinda faded and dates felt like just chilling. (it was during a break so we met quite frequently) One day after a normal date, she went home and didn't talk to me for a while. I know she got scolded by her parents for always coming home late. (10pm lol) I ask her what's wrong and she said give me some time alone. I assumed it has to do with her parents and her school/work stress so I didn't talk to her for about a week and a half. Then, on her social media, she posts a picture of two movie tickets (knowing that I would see it). that made me wonder if she's was okay now so I was expecting her to text saying she wants to see me or smthing. But 3 days after that, she texts me she wants to break up cuz she wasn't ready for relationship. I was devastated. So I told her not to do this over text and I went to her house at night to talk. She told me she wants a break from a relationship and she feels stressed. I had no choice.

Then she starts hanging out with a guy within a month. (now dating 2months later) I think it was the two movie tickets but what do I know

First we live together with our three girls, and have been together over a year.

Recently I went back to work, and she is home looking for a new job with lots of time on her hands.

She recently lost thirty pounds (20 of which she gained when we got together) and looks better than she has in years (44 years old).

Since returning to work she is MIA every morning. Says errands or house work. Stuff is done but, she has lots of time beyond that.

Today i came home early and saw her gym outfit. She is going in yoga pants and sports bra with a tank that isn't there and five inches of cleavage (fake boobs). I'm like, normally I don't say anything, but that outfit makes me uncomfortable. You wearing it to the gym, sorry, but guys will roll up on you and it looks like you want attention.

Says she's always wore this stuff when she's in shape. When we went to the gym together before she rolled in a tshirt or something with coverage (but heavier).

She has a history of cheating (not on me) and some of those were gym guys (most were not, and she cheated a lot on most of her guys). Says she's over that and loves me and is totally happy.

To me it it could be she feels she looks good again and is happy wearing stuff she's always worn. But that stuff lead to guys hitting on her and her cheating. she's been more lovey when I get home too, which is sometimes a sign.

She also more more interested in my schedule lately and when I'll be home (which alone, whatever)

Am I freaking out over nothing? Does she just want attention or should I be more worried cause she's been going mia here and there? If she isn't cheating it seems like she is looking to me...

Thanks for the long read!