The Real Reason Why Women Are Single

[fashionguy17]

Yes, I am a man, and I am telling women why they are single. I know that it is taboo for men to tell women why they are single, but when you have over hundreds of women on Snap Chat and you interact with them and see their posts, there really isn't any real surprise as to why they are single.

Now, please realize, I am not bashing all women or saying that all women do this. I am just calling out what I see, and ways women can prevent themselves from being in similar situations.

The Party Women:

On my social media accounts, I see women partying all the time; then, when they come back home from partying, they talk about men. It's as if women think that wearing provocative clothing, going out into the night scene and looking sexy will increase their chances of finding a man.

Let me be completely honest with you - men only go to clubs, bars and lounges to meet and fuck women. That's all. Back in my party days, when my friends and I used to go out at night, the sole purpose was to meet a woman, bring her back to the dorm, fuck her and move onto the next one. That's all. I'm not saying that there aren't men out there in the night scene who are looking for a genuine connection, but it's highly unlikely.

Women also decrease their chances of even finding a man on the night scene because of their approach. For example:

-Women tend to have their defenses put up to the max (which is natural, because men on the night scene are out for sex).

-Women tend to hang out in groups, which limits the number of guys that approach her.

-Women ignore men that approach and act is if they have a "golden pussy" (we'll talk more about this later).

-Women act unapproachable because they show disinterest in the scenery around them by being on their phone.

Conclusion:

It is highly unlikely that you will find a good man in the nightlife scene. A majority of men who go out at night are only looking for sex and nothing more. Also, due to the fact that women make themselves unapproachable, it also makes it unlikely that men, especially the good men (men who actually go out to meet someone) will not approach you.

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The Couch Potato Women:

On my social media accounts, I see women who NEVER go out, and then they complain about men. For example, on Snap Chat, I see women who are inside all day long, and they talk about how there are no good men out there or post memes about how men suck. When I talk to these women to figure how they are meeting men, they tell me this:

-They work all day.

-After work, they just stay at home and relax.

-On the weekend, they go over to a family member's house and just hang out with them.

-They use Tinder and go on a couple dates, but their dates go bad, because the guy just wants to fuck.

Conclusion:

How do you expect to meet wholesome men if you don't make any effort in life? Also, a majority of men use dating apps as a way to hookup. Back when I used Tinder, I used it to meet women and fuck them. A lot of guys I used to talk to back in the day also used to brag and show off the women they fucked from using the app. I'm not saying there aren't wholesome men on Tinder, but they are overshadowed by the amount of men who are there for sex.

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The "Golden Pussy" Women:

Let me be 100% clear about this one. The only person who has a "golden pussy" (depending on your religious beliefs) is the Virgin Mary. She gave birth to Jesus, a God, so it makes sense that her pussy is sacred... and if she was in this time period, she would have a right to act like no man is good enough for her. All jokes aside, let's get into this one a bit.

Here is the definition for "Golden Pussy Syndrome" - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=golden%20pussy%20syndrome

On my social media accounts, I see women like this all the time. A lot of these women think that they are of high value and class and deserve a man who has it all. Of course, at the end of the day, these women always come out disappointed, because no man meets their ungodly standards. As a result, they stay single well into their 30s, continue to party, bash men and often hang out with their other single girlfriends.

On social media, here is how a woman acts when she feels like her value is higher than a majority of men:

-She calls all men lame, worthless, and not worth her time.

-She is usually the one posting a lot of party pictures on social media... and her pics are often laced with provocative images, drinking or with her girlfriends.

-She acts incredibly superficial with men. If a man does not meet her height standards, for example, but has all the qualities she looks for, she will not put up with him.

-She posts texts from men and bashes them for attempting to talk to her.

Here is an example:

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhCgmLnBfU5hXRiR7p

Conclusion:

How do you expect to find a good man when your attitude is shit? Social media has given women (not all women) a false sense of entitlement and importance. Just because you have a vagina, are gorgeous and get attention from men on social media... it does not make you any better than anybody else.

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Meeting Quality Men:

Well, it will depend on you. Are you a quality woman, and do you deserve a quality man? If you want a quality man, first off, stop partying, stop being a couch potato and stop thinking you're better than all men that approach you.

-You will rarely find a quality man in a club.

-You will rarely find a quality man while you are being a couch potato and swiping right while watching TV.

-You will rarely find a quality man, if you think you are too good for all of them.

Here is how you find a quality man:

Get some hobbies - I am not talking about joining an all girl group or going to classes that are 90% female. You need to learn to get some actually hobbies for yourself and get out more. Take some art classes, cooking classes, join a meetup (www.meetup.com), fitness classes... something! Quality people have hobbies, and they enjoy being active. Become active in your community, get to know men from your hobbies and the rest will follow. You don't need to go to clubs to meet men.

Go out by yourself - A lot of women, I noticed, are afraid of going out alone. Here's a fun fact; if you go out with a group of your girls, men are less likely to even talk to you. I have actually noticed that when a man approaches a woman in a group, her friends are usually mean mugging the guy, acting rude and active as if they are the girl's defense. If you go out alone, it will be easier to meet men.

Give a man a chance (and stay off of social media) - If a man approaches you, give him a chance and don't judge him right away. I mean... if he is sagging his pants, mentions sex instantly, etc... then go ahead and ignore him. However, if a man is well kept, approaches you correctly, is genuine... see how far the interaction will go. A lot of women pass on men, because they think that every man that approaches them just wants sex, and that isn't always the case. You have to learn that you aren't better than everyone, just because you get attention on social media and because you're pretty. Looks fade... remember that.

[backtoblackkkk]

You're writing this take in attempt to hide the reasons why you're single, just like all the smartass gaggers. You're bashing women for having high value and expectations, and you expect women to give you what you want without you giving them anything back. In the beginning, I understood what you were getting at but towards the end with "the golden pussy woman" topic, whatever it is lmao, it just all turned into negativity. I've never heard of any women with high value party all the time and call men "worthless, lame, and not worth the time." It sounds like you are scared of women who won't give you head on the first date and the majority of women aren't like what you describe.

[Yayeet]

He's right about the golden pussy though. There are women out there who believe only men like Brad Pitt are worthy of their pussy. I've met lots of women who would even turn down the best men because they believe they're too good for them. It's the equivalent of the guys who think no woman will resist them.
Not every woman is like this, but there is a lot especially where he "picked" these women: social media and clubs

[backtoblackkkk]

@Yayeet Well those women consist of a very, very small population. they do exist but they're just really insecure and pathetic lol.

[Yayeet]

True, they aren't very common. Most women are good decent women, but online and in clubs is where you're gonna meet most of the shitty people, both men and women

[FreedomByChoice]

scared? I have also observed girls like this on social media and yayeet seems to also talk about the same thing. Social media breeds narcissistic behavior, its the obvious truth.

[Snuga2Allie]

I agree!!

[Kauto_Star]

The so-called "golden pussy" is a bitch who when a man approaches her; she treats him like a scumbag.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Come on now. Don't be snobbish. Could he maybe be single by CHOISE? Bc men can do that. They don't need women to be successful or happy. Did you not READ his first part? "I am not trying to bash women" HELLO! Is this not contradictory to what you said?
He ain't saying women CAN'T have high value and expectations, but some of those expectations often fall into things like
Men are the only workers
Women just stay home and take care of kids
Men and women fit into 1940s mentality
A fantasy of a prince charmimg character
Women never pay for dates
Women don't pay much in general
There's much more. Men historically have been in power and have limited women to second class. Some women, like the ones he refers to, feel theg can have it easy with just looks and just stay at home. Some women, the SMART one, want independence and often aren't so into men that they have unrealistic "golden pussy" standards like the ones mentioned before often do.

[fashionguy17]

Ummmmm. I'm NOT single.

[fashionguy17]

And I think you're mad, because you embody some of the qualities I listed.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Presented my point even more so. You've been single before and have dated cause you still are. She likely is mad cause she has qualities you listed. Legit I was on two different apps and both had girls on it saying they just date for food. What does that say? It may be funny, but if that's for real, guys will reject you. If money is sexy, saving money is even sexier.

[Chaoseverywhere]

@Yayeet oh you narcissistic? right? fkn i put them their place and punch their pussy ez.

[TripleAce]

The real reason women are single cause
1. They have a hard time separating good guys from the bad ones
2. Expectations are much higher than what they are worth
3. Failing to see red flags when they occur
4. Going for appearance and money over quality and substance

[karahiri]

5. lack of "quality" men to begin with. lmao.

[Unit1]

@karahiri and here is exactly why you are single :P

[karahiri]

@Unit1 eh, it was kind of a joke. But... yeah, get all offended 😎

[FreedomByChoice]

weird joke

[TripleAce]

@karahiri
6. Lack of women that know how to cook

lol been noticing a new trend with girls these days... so many can't cook hahah

[JRise25]

This is sooooo true. I am a prime example I believe of someone that has "everything and nothing" all in one. I'll be honest, I got the money... but not the looks, i will admit, but I got confidence in myself to make up the appearance. I have a great career, make a great living, have no debt, I'm stable and just out having fun! I've been told I got a great personality and down to earth. I'm talking to this girl in my building whom i see as "the girl i've always been looking for". Her, she's my age (28), he last two bf's were small time college football players, she's in a entry level job in my industry, living at home and not too sure at the moment where she is going with herself. I totally put myself out there for her and yet... nothing... the game sucks

[Anonymous]

I can sort of understand this because you're describing some of my girlfriends. This doesn't apply to everyone though. I was single for a long time and it's because guys didn't seem to catch my interest enough for me to want to date them. I don't think I have a "golden pussy" but I think I'm attractive and I know I'm a catch.

I don't know what wrong with social media and going to a club if I'm being honest. This is where you sort of lost me. I live in an area where there aren't really any clubs but I go to a huge party school. I had a lot of fun partying and met some of my best friends at parties from the start of my freshman year. It's not all about hookups. It's just about being young and having fun. I really don't see how that would make me less quality.

My boyfriend is definitely a catch too and he did a lot more partying than me. His friends are all pretty good looking and established too. They all went to clubs. A lot of them including my boyfriend have worked at clubs as well.

Your social media rant seems a little bitter as well. Most good looking girls that post sexy pictures on Instagram think that they are better than others. They just like to show off and if they look really good, then why not? You might have just had a bad couple experiences but most girls aren't as stuck up as you think! My group of friends and I aren't like this at all! Just don't be creepy and just try to strike up a conversation. We aren't going to bite.

I'm also pretty picky but that doesn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else. I just have high standards and my boyfriend exceeds all of them. I waited out and I finally got something even better than what I was looking for. Looks fade, but they are nice and can last a very long time if you live a healthy life. I deserve a guy who I think is sexy in every way. I love how other girls look at him knowing that he is all mine.

Also, one thing you should keep in mind is that a lot of creepy guys approach us a lot. We reject them because some guys just don't understand that no is no. The unattractive ones seem to much more sensitive and will often keep texting you or even stalk you. I've had a guy take all of my same classes just to be around me after a friendly conversation. This is why we have defenses up.

I also don't want a guy who is too afraid to approach me because I'm with other girls. That's a huge turn off and shows that he's insecure.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

I get what your saying but I think that's his point. You know you are attractive. So you use it. At least you think so. There are guys out there like me that end up being picky with that sort of thing even with only so much to offer themselves. I go for brains. A women can be a supermodel. Doesn't matter to me. Not worth it if that is all that is relied on. Also, attractiveness is tied into sexual thinking. Not 100%, but in many ways. So I feel this is a bit contradictory. You "know" that you are a catch. But you seem to base that "being a catch" on attractiveness which is exactly what the golden pussy thing is tied to.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Also, those men that often convince you that you are a "catch" are often the same ones that are direspectful creeps that are just desperate. But more and more men are getting so desperate that sex robots and the like may replace tinder. What then? If you break up, what would you rely on to attract people? Beauty is out since that is ruled by the robots. So brains and personality will ultimately be the thing mattering most. Honestly, by the way you talk, I likely wouldn't date you. "Knowing" you are a catch based on looks sounds too egotistical to me. I don't but up with it.

[Opinion Owner]

@errorgoodnameunfound I never said that I'm only a catch because of only my looks. I have a lot more going for me than just that alone. I go for brains as well as looks. I ended up with an engineer, and he's incredibly attractive.

[Quintessence]

I think your reasons are valid, but I also think you forgot one of the most common, yet seriously misinterpreted (typically by other males) reasons: choice.
When a woman says something like, "it's my choice to be single" or "I like being single", it's like the male brain auto-converts the auditory impulse into one of three cognitions:
(A) "I'm playing hard to get. I want you to lavish me with even more attention, which I'll pretend is unwanted, but is actually making me more and more attracted to you."
(B) "I am a prude. I don't know much in the way of sex, but maybe, with the right amount of cajoling, I'll let you teach me."
(C) "I'm too good for you. I like to use people, be it for their finances, looks, or other some such material benefit, and you simply have nothing to offer me and my ego."

IN REALITY, any of these could be the reason behind why a woman would proclaim she is single and not actively looking, but ODDS ARE the simple reason is just that: she is single and not looking. It doesn't mean she's an attention whore, a prude, or a bitch; it doesn't even mean that she's entirely excluded the possibility of being in a relationship or having a sexual encounter--it just means that, at the moment, that possibility does not feature you. And you, as a man, should understand that some women are perfectly fine going it single and--dare I say it--without sex. Either until they find someone they like or in general.

That said, none of what I said applies to women who are single and complain about being single. Those women, I refer to the reasons mentioned above.

[FreedomByChoice]

you went on a horrible tangent. he is specifically talking about the women he sees on social media who are bitter because they cannot find men or bash them because no one wants to date them. he is not talking about women who claim they want to be single and he has never generalized an entire gender of all groups like you just did when mentioning ''other males'' he only directed his observations to one crowd. Different crowds have different behaviors. so while some men may see it as playing hard to get when a women says no they usually have been around a bunch of females who play that hard to get game. Either way, social media breeds what this guy is talking about

[Quintessence]

@FreedomByChoice The title is "The Real Reason Why Women Are Single". If that's not generalization, I don't know what is. It's not explicitly clear from this title, or even the first paragraph, whether this is to be directed at women in general or women exclusively on social media--but even if the title had included the words "women on social media", that's still a mighty big generalization. It's not "one crowd"; women of all ages, from different cultural and ethnic backgrounds use social media.

[FreedomByChoice]

ok we can agree with the title being vague, but its most likely to do so because its click bait. As you read on his details you can see that it doesn't take the same tone as the title makes it out to be. still, the main topic is his experiences strictly on social media as explained.

[Kauto_Star]

How many women tell the "I not ready for a relationship" lie?

[FreedomByChoice]

@Kauto_Star you are not helping

[lumos]

I was single for all of my teenage years pretty much because I was (and still am lol) a bit of a couch potato. Never complained about men, though, because I was pretty aware of the fact that I'm an introvert, and thus preferred staying home/being productive over going out to parties. I've never had an issue with finding fun and good guys, it's just that I've usually been too shy/passive to be more than just friends, which in turn has made them unattracted to me. I'm fully aware of that.
I still prefer being home, but nowadays I do make more of an effort to party or go to social events every now and then. But in my defense, parties are nowadays a bit more fun simply because the people around me have grown up a little, so we can have fun without getting totally shitfaced. Whereas when I was a teen, it was all about getting shitfaced. As someone who doesn't drink, spending time with people who can barely put coherent sentences together is not exactly my definition of a fun time.
But I digress. It's hard to just get out there and meet new people as a teen, because you tend to be sorta stuck in your own social circles, and even more so if you're an introvert like me. But as soon as I started using tinder, things got easier. I went on dates with only 2 guys, and one of them ended up being my boyfriend.

[Browneye57]

Not bad.
But let's get to WHY they're like this...

From the day these girls were born they have been told by their parents that they are special and deserved of the entire world on a platter, that one day a prince will sweep them off their feet just like cinderella. We even got Disney getting in on the act. And they've been told that they are better than, prettier than, smarter than, and more deserving than any boy. In fact, boys are supposed to defer to them, to put them first.

I call it the puppy dogs, rainbows, and pink unicorns syndrome. Their whole life and attitude is a charade of special entitlements.

So even if they do manage to snag a beta-chump guy to be hers, her expectations for what the relationship is or should be is so far off kilter that she's gonna be disappointed at the least, and down right depressed at the best. So after awhile they get so goddam bored that the either shut down sexually, bail, cheat, or any combination of these. And they guy is left there crying in his beer cuz he did everything right but she screwed him over anyway.

Now we hear that some 40% of women over 40 are on some type of psychotropic drugs. Go figure eh? And by 40 they have litterally just hit the wall and going down fast - droopy and wrinkly, fat, and depressed. But they're 'not gonna settle' and by gosh they DESERVE a hot-rich guy that's gonna sweep her off her feet!! YESIREE!

Good luck out there... it's a mine field. :)

[dewatergirl]

Not sure how weird or mean it is to say this but you just perfectly described my mom.

[Browneye57]

@dewatergirl - Amazing isn't it? What really pisses them off is when the guys have figured out their schtick and aren't buying into it anymore. It becomes desperation time for them.

No, once a woman hits forty is virtually impossible to find a suitable mate. They can get sex alright, but finding mr. right becomes mission impossible. :)

[dewatergirl]

I found a file on the computer. It was a letter written to my mom buy this man who adored her. He would have done anything for her. He even stated it in the letter. He said he was completely and madly in love with her but she was just too darn self absorbed. I have never seen the word selfish used in so many different ways and so many times. I laughed the entire time I read that letter. Thank God I got to learn from her and didn't have to make the same mistakes as she did. I could already see her corruption in me which I have tried to rid myself of. The good man for me snatched me up and now we have the rest of our lives together. I'm generally not a mean character but I can't wait for my mom to see how well I'm doing and rub it in her face. ok that's a little much but I have made my point.

[kitlindsay]

I am 55 years old and have had several wonderful relationships, several great marriages and am currently with the best of them all. the woman I fully expect to finish out with. I support the author's recommendation of finding an activity or hobby to get involved in and you will most certainly find a dateable man. For instance, my hobbies include scuba diving, flying airplanes, motorcycle riding, classic cars, dancing (I own a dance studio in Overland Park Kansas), cooking, traveling, motorsports events, Rotary (there's an excellent place to meet a quality guy) the list goes on and on. Every one of the wonderful women I have met were discovered doing an activity listed above. I suggest finding something you enjoy and looking up the local club or group that does it. Go to a local EAA meeting to meet a pilot or go to a Rotary club to meet local community minded people who are motivated. Hell, go to an AA meeting if you want to meet someone who probably doesn't drink! The point is, go looking and then speak up. Confident men LOVE it when an assertive woman approaches them. It's how I kept getting married all those times!

[fabulouspancakes]

Meh some valid points and some not so valid. Yes clubs and Tinder are bad places to meet men if you want more than a hookup. Almost all classes and hobby groups are 90% female or couples. You're not going to meet single men that way. I'd say your best bet is to use a dating site that is not intended for hookups, in other words, not Tinder.

[sedrftvgyhujik]

I assume it's more that your interests are mostly female dominated.
All my hobbies so far have mostly guys other than the one time i tried spinning and found i didn't enjoy it.
Im involved with an engineering hobby group thats normally 100% male and 20% of us are single.
Also the tech meetups i go to are about 60% guys
and the climbing club near me looks about 60% as well.
Then a whole lot of sports like crossfit.
I know there's also a medieval reenactment group thing near me and im sure that would be 90% guys.

[fabulouspancakes]

@sedrftvgyhujik That's true, but I was referring to the activities listed in this take which are all female dominated, with the possible exception of fitness classes depending on the type.
And at some of the activities you mentioned, it may be mostly men but I don't think they're looking to meet women there. Not that that always matters, but still.
Maybe it's just because I've never been the outgoing type but when I was single I always had the most luck online.

[sedrftvgyhujik]

Yes thats not at all why we go and where not actively looking while where there though some of us are single and not actively looking doesn't mean where not open to a relationship once we get to know you.

[sedrftvgyhujik]

assuming you actually find whatever it is interesting of course.

[AriesMan]

I was guilty of going to the dance clubs to try to meet a girl for a long term relationship. Honestly, you get to a point where you think that no matter what you do, you can't do anything right or you apply your lessons learned in the past inappropriately to new situations.

I am single by choice, for now. However, I do feel like I have given up, damned if I try and damned if I don't try. Maybe one day I will finally "strike oil" and have the relationship I have always wanted. For now, I spend my free time on social media and commenting on sites like this.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Don't sweat it bro. You don't need women to be happy. Focus on other things in life. If you have a good mindset and personality, the girls with the same may find you. But you don't have to go outta your way to chase. If nobody sees your value, oh well. Their loss. They can go wreck their life with people they picked over you who were obviosly dumber and regret it later. Not much sympathy. Let em learn the hard way.

[AriesMan]

@errorgoodnameunfound
It will happen, and next time I will take her dancing as opposed to going alone, and it will be to Salsa/Bachata clubs. If we are going to dance sexy, let us do it with some real dancing.

[Anastasiya00]

Thank you for this. We need to hear the truth and its great to do so from a man himself. You know, I hate how women tend to take dating advice from other women who complain about men 24/7. And then when a man tells the truth to help them they complain ''dont tell us what to do'' hahaha

thank you for this take. For Future reference ;D

[Alan180188]

you forgot the purity slut type, the one which plays pure in front of her friends and boyfriend but sleeps around in secret, she is always negative and always in war with herself and everybody else, usually her boyfriend would be one of her friends whom she was playing pure in front of her so he fell for her then she destroy his life and he doesn't give up cause he think he can fix her imaginary problems, this type doesn't just stay single but also turn people bad and spreads hate and trust issues !

[confusednbored]

You fucked women you picked from the night clubs, used them for sex but you complained 'golden pussy', virgins and religious type women who dont let men fuck her easily! how and when should women open their legs and let men fuck them with respect and love? you have double standards for yourself.

I think where women can find true is more about a man's attitudes and standar

[Odysseas]

You charge the OP for the logical fallacy of posting an oxymoron statement but that's not right, I understand you though because the very phrase "golden pussy" is quit misleading. The phrase "golden pussy" doesn't refer to women who don't give in to the advancements of low quality men, thus reserving themselves for a good man of high moral values (on the contrary that's the Holy Grail for a woman!). "Golden pussy" refers to those women who are low quality themselves but they think the can be judgmental towards men for exactly the same attributes they don't bring down to the table already. Let's take for example a woman without a job who prerequires a stable job from her potential man. That may seem innocent but in reality it's not, because she perceives a man without a job as of low quality, but she can't handle it if a man reject her for the same reason, thus giving her a taste of her own medicine...

[AlphaGhost]

@Odysseas That's why 21st century woman are very weak and total shit, they think they are better than old womans but look at you now. Man will fuck the random chicks if he gets the chance but He will always look for the virgin woman or having 1 or 2 partners for marriage and He will never marry a party whore unless forced upon somehow (kid problem). That's why ladies in old days know their worth and their vagina's worth too.

Man is man, he will always find a way but current condition of woman is very weak as compare to that used to be, of-course they have rights like birth control but now She needs them too due to 3 kids at the age of 19.

[ElisAllTheWay]

Maybe I'm single by choice? Lol. I don't go out to clubs or stay in and watch Netflix hoping someone will notice me. I'm texting with my crush just fine, and he's seen me just as much of a party animal or an antisocial mess I can be. I know you said "not all women do this", still a harmful mentality. Especially for men. Are men animals? Are they not allowed to go to a club to be with friends? Do they just want to fuck and are 99% horrible always? I think it's greatly harmful to depict them as animals who just want to fuck, except for the "nice guys". If you don't know what kinda men they are you may wanna look them up and pray you're not one of them because turns out, they're the most unrespectful of women. Point is: we don't need you to tell us why? You haven't told us anything society hasn't already had, you added nothing new to it.. so even irregardless of the post being fuelled by harmful mentality it's not really useless since that's what everyone tells us anyway.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Dude! Holy fucking shit! You NAILED it 95% of the way! FINALLY somebody pointed all this out. The 5% part Id argue is
1. Girls have a right to be single or into other gals.
2. Guys have made going out alone possibly dangerous. They have also given into looks and fall hard/act like idiots over it.
Besides that, very impressed! Girls need to be called out for being obsessed with finding a good guy in the wrong places and ESPECIALLY judging on looks. Your last part was the blue shell. If I could bro fist you rn, I would. Its time both men and women stopped being so shitty for themselves and to each other.

[Robertinho]

Wow... and to think all this time I've been sad because I've been alone my entire life. After reading this, im actually glad I've been alone my whole life, thank your this was good stuff. Girls come and go, but my dignity is woth more then any woman, and im good with that.

[getrealnow]

~I have noticed a trend with women in their 30's - 40's. It seems the women I am referring to want to enjoy as many years of slutting around as they can manage. I don't really care, that is their own option of course. The thing is, they start wanting a good guy to settle down with after they are used up and have lost their bodies. These women seem to have trouble realizing why men stop being interested in them. Sure they can still get boned. They just become free prostitutes. When they want to drum up a real relationship they have lost any shred of value to those of us that know they are only interested out of desperation. They could have easily married young, but then they couldn't have capitalized on all that dick.

[Mi2mi2a]

I was okay with everything until you mentioned the golden pussy syndrome. How you defined it was just a demeaning way to a woman with standards. I have standards, I want a quality man who I will spend the rest of my life with not just some random hook-up so ofc I have standards.
I have a fat chance I will stay single because of them and I'm okay with that since without these standards I will be miserable in the relationship. Most of those standards are just somethings I love in life, important parts of who I am and I want to enjoy them with my loved one. So it was in global a good myTake

[Mi2mi2a]

If you meant the golden pussy syndrome as pathetic women who bash men than okay you are right, otherwise this term is loosely used for women who has standards

[NJ_Casanova]

Girls have become selfish... and take LADY LIKE properties ( most are now just B*tches).

As girl have become so promiscuous (single moms with multiple baby daddy's, etc) that it's a turn off.

Most girls I know can't even cook... the guys I know are the better cooks... So what are they bringing to the table/relationship?

[errorgoodnameunfound]

For real? Wow. Many women seem to want to free ride off men based on their looks not bc they can give anything else. Problem is men fall head over heels to this. If men stopped demanding, women would have to change if they want men.

[dwiller943]

Facts. It seems to me that most men are better cooks compared to most women. And it is true what else you said.

[JustBoredGirl]

I have to be honest here. I literally came in here all worked up and ready to bash you but i kind of saw truth within your take. I have to agree with most of it. Sometimes it takes a slap to see whats really going on.

[Yayeet]

Social media has the same effect on women as porn has on men.
Men jack off to women and then don't approach in real life because in their mind, they can orgasm to any women they want.
Women get all the attention they need with the likes and compliments in social media. Just one great picture in FB can give them more male attention than they'll have in their whole life.

These people think they have what they need, until they reach a point where that attention no longer exists, or in case of the men, they can no longer find anything that turns them on enough to cum.

These women that can't get any men, basically have a problem with being humble. In the end, they all think they're too good to approach, and therefore, remain single.

[Anonymous]

- They have high and unrealistic standards
- They think all men are creeps
- They smoke, drink alcohol and do drugs (all of which are unattractive habits)
- They expect too much from men but offer little to nothing
- They want one thing (nice men) but end up with bad boys

[GingerGuy]

I didn't read this entirely so forgive me if you mentioned this already, but I believe if women did more approaching as well and not wait or expect the man to, there would be a lot less single women also. Girls, we have all the same thoughts, feelings and insecurities you do about approaching, yet you expect us to be different somehow just because we're a guy and it's "traditional". Sorry, times change. Change with them!

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Well said! Bravo bro! I did a poll about how many people on this site liked the "traditional" way more even though it truly sucks. Waaaay more people, guys and girls, fucking PREFERRED it. The girls I talked to then got offended when I was blunt that their fantasy of the "alpha male" was BS. One girl had the nerve to suggest guys should always pay. "I think guys who pay for dates are sexy. Come on fellas, be sexy." At least she got told off pretty well after that.

[dwiller943]

Some of us do the approaching. But are sitting back and allowing ourselves to be approached for once.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@dwiller943 Exactly! Too many people deserved to have somebody give them a chance whether for a relationship or friendship. Time to stop being so desperate. Made a statement about this the other day when interveiwed about the "#MeToo" movement. Great idea, but the reality is it changes little. Men have a lot of fixing to do for themselves before they should bother so much with women and women have the same job. Men are often stupid towards each other especially in a fight to get women while for women it's vice versa! The key is for men to rise together bros for bros. Women need to have a similar movement among themselves. Once each gender finally doesn't judge itself so much especially based on the other's opinion, I feel only then there can be peace and understanding between the two genders.