Search Results: how to deal with shy guys

Girl is playing hard to get or not interested?

I'm interested in this girl and we've been hanging out quite a bit lately, sometimes one on one and other times with other people. She has many guy friends, not an issue with me but my issue is mostly the inconsistency...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I dont understand her?

My ex-girlfriend whom broke up with me approximately 11 months ago and dated for about 8 months. She seem's to be acting more and more out of character. She's progressively getting more negative, short, and mischievous it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shy guy gives signs he like me but says he doesnt?

Okay so this guy i like is really shy and when i talk to him he looks at the ground and he will stare at me in class sometimes and he will be around me and he will wait for me to say something to him. And he usually is...

Annabconfused12

Xper 4 Age: 36

Surprise first kiss on second date?

So I've been seeing this girl recently and it's been going great as far as I can tell. However, in our first date we just walked around the campus so I didn't get the chance to get in a kiss and didn't want to do the...

shiiiet

Xper 5 Age: 31

How to deal with a frustratingly shy guy?

There's this guy in our class who's like the popular guy's right hand man. Needless to say, he's well-liked and charismatic. I think he likes me but I'm getting really frustrated because I feel like he expects me to chase...

Daphne_Naiad

Xper 5 Age: 36

I have a question about my crush? guys? help!?

well this guy has apparently been into me for a bit... i never really noticed till he came out and kinda confessed to it well I said i was kinda interested too but he has stuff to deal with so he is having a hard time esp...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shy Guy: What's his deal?

I like this really like this super cute shy guy at my school. I kinda think he may like me back but I'm not sure. I just transferred schools this year so a new student and we met on the bus because we have the same one....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I like this really like this super cute shy guy at my school. I kinda think he may like me back but I'm not sure. I just transferred schools this year so a new student and we met on

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Is this a big deal / indication of interest?

My crush is my guy friend from Japan. While he was studying here, he would ask his parents to send me birthday presents that he knew I would love, and talked about me to them. Nowadays he Skypes me and his family know...

kumikochan48

Xper 6 Age: 31

My crush is my guy friend from Japan. While he was studying here, he would ask his parents to send me birthday presents that he knew I would love, and talked about me to them. Nowadays

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Like this girl but am in a confusion Help please?

So here is the deal i am 6 foot plus... get a lot of compliments so probably am good looking. In my class I am known as the funny one.. I am a carefree guy and joke arond alot... So i like a girl and the feeling is only...

LoveWreck

Xper 4 Age: 32

Does this lady like me or what is her deal?

this lady will walk past me and attempt to make eye contact as ash walks by me, she will like talk to someone in a direction I'm in ask something that won't even last 10 seconds, turn around look at me and then keep...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Brother in law always nervous around me and I don't know why?

Since the day I met my brother in law he is always very nervous around me and in turn that makes me become nervous too and I have no idea why. He seems confident around other people but with me he's so shy and nervous. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies... What is the deal when I make eye contact?

I've been really practicing my skills when I'm in public to meet more women. I mean for god sake's if I don't introduce myself how will I ever meet women. I've been make eye contact with women, at Starbucks, grocery, gym...

jdesey

Xper 5 Age: 59

I don't know what to do anymore! Be direct, or give up?

I just so sick of having to try so damn hard. I know that things you want in life you have to work for, but I don't feel that applies here. I'm really into this guy and we are "dating" as in we were supposed to go on a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What's the deal with my dad's double standards with his children's dating lives?

My dad has 1 son and 1 daughter. My older brother just married a foreign girl he's only met 3 times and my dad was thrilled for him! My sister in law can do no wrong. Yet my dad has never approved of any guy I've dated....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this too wronge? I feel a little dirty and want to air out a secret?

I want to vent and I can't tell anyone in real life this. I am a president at school clubs, well known and typically a nice girl but... I think I have a crush on this guy because he looks like or acts like my friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I stop picking emotionally unavailable men?

So I am shy. Guys I do talk to is usually the. confident ones an yes they turn out to be the total. douche bags or charming but emotionally unavailable. type of guys So guy I met. this year. Everytime I would see him he...

Fleur-Rose

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

How do I even begin to deal with this?

I am 20 and was bullied from k-12 a lot. I've never had a boyfriend and it feels like it never will. My two friends only friends. Have went to the bar before. And they always seem to be able to get guys numbers and come...

Misty324

Xper 6 Age: 32

Why would a guy suddenly act weird around a girl?

I met this guy at an icebreaker event and my first impression of him was that he is a quiet/shy guy. When we were in a group conversation, he seemed to be really impressed by some of the things I said and laughed at some...

Anonymous

(36-45)