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My best friend and I got into a fight recently. About a boy, I'm now dating and I really really like. To start off, I broke up with my ex boyfriend about three months ago and met my boyfriend when I went to my grandma's house for a two weeks and a half. Turns out he goes to my uni but is just in a different department. When we both returned from our vacation, we constantly met up after school, and I din't tell my friends because I was afraid they'd judge me for seeing someone right after my break up so I was waiting for the right moment.

Two weeks ago, my friend tells me she likes someone from her part-time job and everything. I ended up finding out it was my boyfriend. During that time, I stopped talking to my boyfriend and basically broke up with him but staying away from him hurt too much and we ended up getting back together.

Because of this, I decided to tell my friend I was dating him and she didn't react well. She got mad and called me a slut and that I was stealing every man from her because, she used to like my ex boyfriend too but he liked me. Before him, there was another guy in our high school who we both liked but he liked me instead and I decided not to pursue anything with him at that time.

I feel terrible towards her and now she says she doesn't want anything to do with me. Our friends found out and now, half of them are saying I'm at fault but I honestly don't think and I can't break up with my boyfriend because I seriously love him way too much to give him up. Yet I do want to make it up to her.

How can I fix things with her and keep the person I love? Is it really my fault her crushes liked me back? This isn't even a boasting post where I'm trying to look desirable. I never did anything to make them like me.

so i’ve never been in a relationship and i am 18 years old. I’ve always started things with people and ended up talking for about 3 weeks, then eventually cut things off because of the same damn reason: I want space and i don’t want to be cuffed.

The thing is that while this is my argument, being single is terrible for me too, i’ve always wanted to have a boyfriend and i always try to get one but something always feels wrong. I’ve been taught to always identify the constant in problems and in this one I think i’m it.

I’ve been speaking to a guy for about 2 weeks and i’m starting to want to use this argument and break things off. The thing is that i like him but he’s a little too intense for me (telling me he likes me every day, talking with me all the time and talking about seeing me a lot), should i risk my comfort in order to find out whether i even CAN have a relationship? Or should I break it off and try things with another guy that likes me and asked me out. Or should I just stop doing anything?