How did you realise you were over your crush?

Anonymous
They say they come back the moment you have stopped thinking too much about them.

I have such a weird feeling atm because I feel like I’m over a guy I have been infatuated in for 2 years. I got a bit heartbroken by him this summer. But two weeks ago, we saw each other again by his initiative, and he seemed much more interested in me than I with him.

Why I think the feeling is weird is because I kind of got what I then wanted, him initiating to meet again, and showing more affection then me, but it did not make me feel more in love with him, more the opposite. I felt like I was done ”chasing” after him.

But, I rarely get feelings for someone, and since I have only been interested in this guy only, for now 2 years, I feel like maybe I should continue seeing him although my interest faded, to see if I feel more again?

Has anyone had this experience?
How did you realise you were over your crush?
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