What’s people’s first impression about you?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have lots of friends who have told me “When I first saw you I thought you were a b**ch.”

[AviatorTom]

My ex-wife of 20 years at first didn't like me at all... we worked in the same office. You might even say she hated my guts. I had messy hair, a pocket protector and no fashion sense in clothes. Over time, though, I grew on her, and she started liking me, enough for us to fall in love, get married, and have a long and mainly happy marriage (no marriage is perfect), raising 3 kids, until an amicable divorce.

[SotiCoto]

They think I'm blind or possibly a douchebag because I wear sunglasses everywhere.

I'm just really photosensitive and would be blinded by the light if I didn't wear them... but the people who stare at me are always either those who believe I can't see them staring holes through me for minutes at a time, or those who are looking at me like I'm dogshit for breaking some unspoken social taboo by wearing sunglasses when not in direct sunlight.

All of them can go eat a bag of rancid donkey dicks.

[SallyTho87]

I ALWAYS get told "You're so tiny!" "I thought you'd be taller!" when meeting with new people (online friends, gaming pals, etc) I'm literally 5ft and 114lbs lol people expect me to be a lot taller than what I actually am, as I have longer legs for being petite woman. I've been told the average height I look is around 5ft 6- 5ft7 in my pictures, as I have longer legs.
So when I actually meet people for the first time in person, it's ALWAYS my height that is commented toward lol.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

It's always like, "I thought you are a foreigner." 😂

[molonski2]

It depends I think , if they have heard my voice prior..

For the most part , Id say warm , amicable , honest , they always say " different than I thought " , so different than interpretation..

But , I tend to be the kind of person that people will easily open up to.

In business I had this characterture drawn , it was a good one , people would refer to me and print off this face picture of mine.

[Mr_twoface]

Lol, then I hope I never run into you. My first impression is shy and reserved.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s cute.

[MasseurDeMojo]

Most of these comments are way better than what I used to hear. People would talk to me over the phone, then upon meeting would say, "I thought you were white."

[Bricealan]

Funny you ask. In my Yoga class, I have met a lot of new people and I try to be outgoing and friendly, but get the feeling that some many think me - standoffish.

Hard to know really?

[mandyfire98]

Usually people think I'm hitting on them lol. I'm just very forward, it's just my personality. I'm very outgoing.

[dustybiker2]

In person? I'm quiet. I gather facts and then I strike up conversations randomly. More like I am online.

[DrPepper12]

I don't know. I've heard kind, funny and caring from students but never really got adult feedback. In retrospect that's kind of odd and now you have me wondering. I've heard sarcastic, witty, taciturn, withdrawn from family. Never really friends or coworkers. Hmmmm

[msc545]

I am unsure. I m pretty average looking and neither tall nor handsome.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I mean more about personality, for example, people assume I am bitchy and arrogant before they get to know me closer. I don’t know why they think so

[msc545]

People often assume I am sarcastic and difficult. Sometimes they are right.

[superchan2011]

People seem to think that I'm shy when they first meet me. But I guess that's because I tend to be more reserved at first.

[AlexEfron]

"you look like that typical, boring, studious guy wearing spectacles, that was my first impression of you" - people when they first see me

[DJB72]

Depends how we met. There's a few people think I'm very loud and extroverted and some who thought I was introverted to the extreme.

And there's one or two who were just plain scared. Thankfully not many.

[LaurenM1997]

People when they see me probably

Them- ugh here’s the loud one

me- oh well if that’s what you think 😂

[MsBrie]

I get told they are too afraid given black woman stereotypes i also admit my fashion sense i look more upscale than i really am.

Um approachable guys stop being scared! lol

[TommyMountainFigure]

Very hit or miss.

I either make extremely good first impressions or terrible. It's never in between!

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think its because I don't put on airs or graces. I also have a dry sense of humour.. Some people like it, others do not!

[Nifrayu]

I've not heard about very many first impressions about me, but the few I have heard basically said they thought I was a pretty boy with gorgeous hair. I think that's pretty accurate, but I might be biased.

[NetherlandsNar]

I think that too of you.

People like me at first but then see my true face, the evil within me 😈

[DishLady]

It’s usually a comment about my looks of sense of humor.

[itsclearlynicholas]

They must keep it to themselves. I couldn't tell you as I haven't been told any time in the last months or years 👀🫠

[fantasticass]

I have been told people are attracted to my "Aura ". I have positive energy vibes.🇨🇦✌️

[Anonymous]

Well, you do have a little bit of rbf going on, or maybe it's just your choice of profile pic. If you have a LOT of people telling you that was their first impression, maybe there's something to how you come across at first, or the rbf.