Since I’m in my mid 40’s, is it creepy for me to find women in their 20s and 30s attractive?

[Counterclocking]

As it is we can’t control what we’re attracted to.

[Finchie40]

No you aren’t , maybe to some people you are , but who gives a fuck what other people think or say , it’s your life and and your choice. , I am the same way you are , I prefer younger girls ‘ because most younger girls’ prefer us, I never really held age as a deciding factor when it comes to meeting a beautiful girl to my eyes , that shares a lot of things in common with me and her and I both have great chemistry and connection with each other , her age doesn’t really mean shit to me , unless she is under legal age of consent , but I consider myself wise enough not to go down that road. Nowadays I lean more towards the younger girls’ because I had better experiences with them , Most females in general like being with a guy that she can look up to , that she feels safe and protected by and she feels he is mature compared to guys’ her age. I dated girls in their 20’s and 30’s that treated me like Gold compared to girls ‘ I dated that were my age or older. Younger girls ‘ also have a higher sex drive higher libidos , I love sex and I love being dominate during sex younger girls ‘ don’t really have any problems fulfilling that for me because most girls’ love being submissive to her man , compared to some of the older girls’ I been with that were barely ever in the mood for sex because they are dealing with stress or health reasons , their libido does down , they don’t think sex is that big of a deal anymore , so that’s why I lean to younger girls mainly , they know how to keep my old ass in gear , they make me feel young again and they keep my penis in tip top shape lol

[Jefftheduck]

Of course the 30 year old girl says date 30s lol 21+ is a good rule they are old enough to decide the cap for how old they would like to go I’m 30 and my current girl I’m hoping to become my girlfriend but it’s only been a couple weeks fingers crossed but we talk constantly and I care about them very much I would say just don’t put to much weight on age as long as they are an adult and you actually care about them it’s fine

[Apple1996]

Kind of. It might suggest that you are a bit immature if your idea of beauty isn't changing as you age. The 30s isn't so bad but it's odd if your finding women in their 20s attractive. That should be something in the past for you by now

[menina]

I see nothing wrong with a man in his 40's being attracted to women in their 30's. However, being attracted to women in their 20's is creepy.

[Avicenna]

No, it's totally normal to find them attractive.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Like a bucket of chicken it’s all about breasts, thighs & legs & when it comes to attraction we like what we like & we can’t help it if we are a bunch of horn dogs & like younger women. It’s not creepy it’s nature.

[DarkLegacy]

Don't take any notice of what bitter women say, it is perfectly normal for any guy to prefer women that are younger because they are more attractive and more fertile. Science has proven that men of all ages find women around the age of 23 most appealing. Older women have a problem with because they are jealous and feminism has driven into large numbers of women to demonize men for their preferences.

They also demonize men who criticize women for their preferences

[NamerOfStars]

Of course not; why would it be? For pity's sake, you're SUPPOSED to be attracted to young, fertile women; that's how natural selection works.

[normalice]

It's not creepy to find them attractive. It is creepy to entertain the possibility or act on it in any way.

[OddBeMe]

It’s never creepy to have “thoughts”. It’s acting in certain thoughts that creeps and criminals get lambasted.

Now of course there’s demand in you girls for older guys. Be it money, security, the media brainwashing, whatevs. If they’re adults, I can’t say it’s wrong. I would say focus on twenties girls because they have more experience than an 18 yr old fresh outta High School. That’s less sleazy.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm in an environment surrounded by 20somethings all the time. They flirt with me. I flirt back. I'm sure someone may have a problem with that. I'm sure I can't imagine any conceivable reason why I would care for their opinion on the matter.

[4ngelic]

it's not creepy no especially not 30s. it only would be creepy if you had a fixation on just or mainly 20-23yos

[DishLady]

Find attractive? No. Try dating? Depends on the girl and on you… it COULD be creepy but not necessarily.

[Drewtate]

No. Just means you still got lead jn your pencil

[Lliam]

There's nothing creepy about finding women attractive. Why would that make a man feel guilty? The fact is, women ARE attractive.

[slatyb]

No, it's normal for you to find women of any age beyond puberty attractive. Don't hit on teens.

[Apple1996]

Most girls are hitting puberty at 8-10 years old so no that's not normal to think those ages are attractive

[slatyb]

@Apple1996 hitting? Those girls are pubescent, not "beyond puberty." It wasn't all that long ago that women were considered marriagable at 15 or 16. What do you think the quinceanera is about? Debutantes weren't always 18.

We live much longer now, so women can delay marriage and childbirth into their mid-20's or later and they will likely live until their children are grown.

[slatyb]

Social bowls have changed, but people have not. Men still find some teens attractive. We just don't hit on them.

[slatyb]

bowls -> norms

[Apple1996]

It's not natural to find women under the age of 23 attractive because that's when we have regular cycles and developed hips for birthing. Puberty doesn't mean much if the girls body isn't developed yet

[Apple1996]

Men married women those ages because they were pedophiles and could get away with it

[slatyb]

@Apple1996 they married young because life expectancies were much lower, infant mortality was much higher.

It wasn't all that long ago that terms were used to model clothing for adult women. Also pedophilia is an attraction to sexually immature children, not sexually mature teens.

[Apple1996]

Teens are still childern. Even till 25 we have the brain of a child

[Apple1996]

It's sickening for a older man to be sexually attracted to women under 25. It shows they are hiding pedophilia and want to take advantage of young girls that aren't fully developed yet.

[82lynx]

I don’t care about sex or give a crap about fertility, I just like their youthful looks. However, I’m picky even with the younger ones; very few actually stand out to me.

[genericname85]

no, that's the age range of women who are most attractive to men and that won't change untill you die. nothing to worry about or feel bad about. it's just nature.

[DrPepper12]

This again. Ok last time: 1) is it legal? 2) is it safe? 3) is it consensual? If YES to all of the above ITS FINE!!!

[Twalli]

No. I'm almost 33, you think 18 year old girls don't get me hard? The difference is that I don't seriously want to have sex with them. They're hot, I like looking.

[Darkot13]

As long as it's not some fixation on the age itself you're attracted to. If you come across someone you just click with and enjoy one another age shouldn't make or break things. Just Keep it legal though!

[David94358]

No it's actually completely normal and there is actually a scientific reason for it

[handsomelad70]

H**L NO, boyo !!! I'm SEVENTY and find women in their 20's and 30's attractive !!!

[82lynx]

High five!

[handsomelad70]

@82lynx THANKS MUCH !!!

[OtterMan68]

not at all. It's normal.

Now if you start finding high school girls attractive... that's a different story.