okay- I met her at the place where my family had a vacation house. It turned out that she lived in the next town. We both knew some of the same people, we had attended the same concert and we were both at the rally when the local NHL team won the Stanley Cup. We went to the same school and used to go the same pizza place. Her brother was friends with a guy I worked with. It was amazing that we did not meet until we were 23 years old. We are both of Italian decent. After we were dating for about a month she tells me that she needed to tell me something. It did not sound good. She told me that she was going to marry a guy from Alaska that she met in college. They were together for 4 years and she just ended things with him a few months ago. At first I thought she was making fun of me because I was going to marry a girl from Oklahoma that I met in college that I was with for 4 years and just broke up with her a few months ago.
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Her love of me was "selfless" not "selfish". She always wanted the best for me even if it had nothing to do with her. And this was not unique to me. She was this way with everyone. Her heart is like a bottomless well. How could you not be attracted to that. I tell her all the time she's a better person than me. Something that always elicits a confused look from her. Because she doesn't even realize what a good person she is. That's the best thing about her. It's easy to want to give her everything because hearts like hers are rare and you don't want anything ever to change that beautiful heart.
He stepped out of his comfort zone to get job which could be respectful as well as more secure so that he could provide me well. He scold me even if I say bad things about myself. These two things made me realise yes he is the one.
It was just a feeling I got from him… like nothing else on God’s green earth.
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Well, darling, the moment I knew my partner was "the one" felt like a scene out of a romantic comedy - minus the awkward slip-ups, of course! 😄 It was in the little moments, you know? Like how her laughter could light up even my gloomiest days, or the way she'd understand my silence just as well as my words. But here's the kicker - it was when I realized that her dreams had become just as important as mine, and our values aligned like stars in the sky, that I knew she wasn't just a keeper; she was my forever plus one. Keep an eye out for those moments when you feel understood, supported, and inspired - they're little signposts on the road to "this is it"! 🌟
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I don't believe in a "the one" and haven't for many years ever since I came to the conclusion like others and Google, that it's all just chemicals and hormones and genes in the brain and there could be many many matches out there who are just lust or attraction of those with genes that turn us on. There is no just "the one" that's hogwash to sell marketing aka.
Not applicable. What a tedious and clichéd question... But I'm sure this site is going to shove these "featured questions" in my face until I respond to them.
When either one of you gives your last breath next to one another
When she told me she'd rather die than our kids if it came to it. She said this long before I thought of kids or marriage. On the trio to introduce her to my absentee mother.
I was wrong twice, i'm not sure if there's a one anymore 😏
It just happened. Nothing really bad happens in our relationship.
I felt it with my heart and soul
There is no such thing as "the one"
after seeing the actions
Too many things to list
Endless butterflies
oops, I guess I didn't find that one yet.
The giddy feeling.
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