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My girlfriend and I, in the past, have been to a naturist camp before. We are not nudists ourselves but were invited by friends. It was not what we expected. It was not sexual - though we had sex in private while we were there. People were friendly and - not surprisingly - informal. The facilities top notch. There were families with kids ranging in age from infant through high school seniors, both guys and gals.

So we have been invited by friends for this summer and were told to include our kids if we wanted. Around our house my girlfriend and I are not nudists, but we are not especially bashful either and the kids have seen us naked. (They also - gulp - caught us having sex a few times. That's a whole different issue.) We have tried to give the kids - as age appropriate - a proper sense of their bodies.

Frankly, I have no problem with it. It is safe and I think healthy and natural. My girlfriend - their mom - thinks that they are too young. She does not object on principle, but thinks that they need to be older so that they can understand where nudity is appropriate and where not.

Should add, just in case it seems relevant, my girlfriend and I are not married but have lived together for 10 years. All three kids are ours from our relationship so there is no issue of step-parents here.

What say you folks?

So my girlfriend and I just broke up earlier this week. I admit I had a drinking problem that caused some rifts in our relationship. I've always had a problem with having one too many drinks, and I become someone different when I drink. She also has an older sister who went to rehab for alcoholism, so it's a personal issue with her that hits close to home. She found out I drank a beer at the Superbowl when I promised I wouldn't. It turned into a whole argument of us blaming the other for all our fights. Like she cheated on me before Christmas with her best friend (she did) or how my drinking has depressed her. Anyways, we called it quits, but she came over the other night to talk and it sounded like we wanted it to work. We said I loved you, kissed, and she even stayed the night (no sex just slept together). When we are in person it's like we are dating again, but apart she acts distant. She gets mad if I call her baby. She doesn't message as much. She states she doesn't want a relationship right now, and I really need to prove myself if I want her back. I also discovered she is talking to her best friend again she cheated on me with. I had her block him after the cheating charade, but she added him back the night we broke up. Should I keep trying to win my ex back. Or should I move on?