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I don’t claim to look like Jennifer Lopez

but I liked a guy from work who acted like he liked me a lot and then kept taking me off his friends list when I tried to add him to my contacts but still viewed my profile over and over again

The thing is this guy is disabled while my alma mater is ranked number 17 in the world

And I said I spent a brief 4 months in graduate school at a top school before getting kicked out

And the other thing was the guy that I perceive to be good looking might be viewed as extremely ugly to others

cause he looks like another guy I used to like and the other guy was rated a 1.5 out of 10 when I posted his photo online / 95% said he was ugly and 5% said personality is more important than looks

maybe he thinks he is both unattractive and disabled and I won’t stay loyal to him if we marry

but to me he is a 9.5 out of 10 - I think he is gorgeous

Many men are bitter about the OkCupid study that found most men rated as unattractive while most women were rated as decent-looking or better.

My question is: what do these guys expect? Many guys claim that they just roll out of bed and put on clothes and then start their day. I was shocked to learn most men don't even put a comb through their hair.

Compare to women. Many women spend up to an hour on their hair, 20 minutes doing makeup, etc.

I guarantee that if most women followed the same routine as men (roll out of bed, don't put on makeup, don't touch their hair) they would be rated as poorly as most men.

How can men expect to be seen as attractive after 2 minutes of effort as women are seen after 40 minutes of effort? Can someone explain that to me?