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Ok so my girlfriend and i live together and we just got a kitten, so last week she said she was going out to play tennis with her friend in the morning, I told her I wanted to play baseball in the afternoon and asked what time she would be home, she said 2. My friend and I watched the kitten and she didn’t show up till 7 and she was drunk, I told her that I wasn’t happy cause I waited and she had told me she’d be home at 2. So today again she said she was going to play tennis in the morning for a couple of hours, we had said we would do Laundry and clean up the apartment, she left at 11 am and did not return till 8pm once again drunk. She got mad at me cause I texted her and told her that I didn’t appreciate her making me just wait around, I have no problem with her going out, but If she’s going to be out the day all she needs to do is tell me. Even if her plans changed and she was to be out for longer than expected a simple message would be nice so that I am not waiting at home all day. She got mad at me for saying that and now I’m the bad guy, I have complete trust in her and it’s not about being possessive to me, but if you say something it means something so saying a couple of hours and being out the whole day without even saying anything to me just feels inconsiderate. Am I in the wrong here?

Been seeing this girl on and off (no label). Kind of a complicated situation. I'm 27, she's 20, with a really protective family and a lot of older siblings. Seems like during a 2 month period she was back in her country, we weren't together but texting, she got a "boyfriend". I didn't know until one night we were hanging out recently, her little sister said something like "insert name, misses her boyfriend". I said "what, you've got a boyfriend?" and she looked at the sister angry and said to me "no" twice. The younger one wanted to put me on her Instagram live and the girl gave her a death stare.. which now makes sense because she didn't want the boyfriend in the other country to see she was out with me at a bar at 1am. The boyfriend looks like a spotty 17 year old, so I don't know if it's like one of those weird texting kid relationship things. The other night the girl said to me "in this relationship" about me and her, and I thought she was hinting.

The next night after she denied having a boyfriend, her guy friend the same age asked her in front of me "so how's your boyfriend back home". The girl tried to divert attention but was drunk and ended up telling him "he's a good guy" this is his name etc. The same night she was walking down the street and holding my hand and flirting hard.

She knew I was mad, I went silent and cut the night short, said I was tired and took her home. Her face looked worried like I could cut her off. She text me the next day to break the ice and I was cold, but didn't say anything. I text her tonight, she said she knew I was annoyed, but I think she thinks it was because I was jealous she flirted with the friend (which I was). Quick replies between us, and then in short I said "you told me one night you didn't have a boyfriend, then the next night you were talking about a boyfriend back home to your friend". So you're either confused, don't know what you want or lied. She left it on read, but would have read it on her home screen.