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Is it normal to think like this in the beginning of dating?

So... as the question follows... is it normal to start thinking '' I'd wish he would do that'' '' I wish he would do this for me'' and kind of feeling unhappy/settling for those things that aren't there? I talked to my...

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(30-35)

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How do you learn to love yourself?

I’ll try to make this as short as possible. I grew up being basically bullied by my mom and sister. Along with fat shamed to the point where i developed a eating disorder. I was severely bullied in school. Starting in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my ex boyfriend want to be friends?

So I see some people that are okay with being friends with their ex I've never been friends with any of my exes Whenever an ex of mine pops up, they either want to get back together or hook up Anyway, my recent ex...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I see some people that are okay with being friends with their ex I've never been friends with any of my exes Whenever an ex of mine pops up, they either want to get back

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I don't want my boyfriend to be friends with a girl he slept with. Am I wrong?

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. From the start he told me about this bestfriend who he talks to that he has had sex with. I tried not to make it get to me since he was so honest and up front, but the fact they...

anonymous2213

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why did my ex cheat? Will he regret what he did and miss me?

I found out through snooping (wrong i know). He told me “i tried to cheat (even though he did ACTUALLY cheat by sexting another girl and trying to meet up with her). He told me he was miserable and unhappy being with me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is it meant to be?

My best friend whom is a guy and is married and so am I (both unhappily) has recently come back into my life and we've grown really close he's told me if things were different we would be together he's constantly hugging...

Anonymous

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Am I intimidating or are they jealous?

I have always seemed to have a really hard time making friends with other girls. Even in high school, girls I didn't even talk to would have a lot of bad things to say about me. I'm almost 23 now and I only have a small...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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How Alone Time Has Saved My Love Life

I know how much people love to be in love.. although I've never experienced an all consuming love myself. I've realized that a number of people are in such a hurry to fall in love, that they don't stop to consider whether...

estoydorado1

Editor Age: 28

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Why Shy Guys Just Aren't For Me

I'm going to start off by saying that I have nothing against shy guys and this is just why I don't think they work for me . This isn't anti-introvert . Just why I think I don't work well with them, don't make this out...

amarahorrorstory

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This girl ! Need advice?

She has a long term boyfriend and we are friends for years but she is very unhappy in her relationship... we flirted heavy and became really attracted I then told her I had feelings for her and she went and sex with a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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I hate choir and the school won’t let me quit?

im a senior in High school and I don’t need the class to graduate. I hate it and Everytime I stay for practice I’m soooo unhappy. I’m miserable. No one even likes me in there or acts like I exsist. My teacher thinks it’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break up advice, living with boyfriend moving out?

Anonymous

(36-45)

So I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years, we have had our ups and downs, in June I moved to his city to be with him (2 hours drive away) from my friends and family. It’s

So I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years, we have had our ups and downs, in June I moved to his city to be with him (2 hours drive away) from my friends and family. It’s been over 6 months and I’ve decided to move back to my hometown, we share a flat together but I’ve felt so lonely and have been driving back to my hometown every weekend to see my friends, I’ve tried to make friends there joining clubs and changing jobs, my boyfriend worked long hours and shifts (including night shifts) so I felt he was never there, I’d ask him to take me out but he never had any money or was too tired, he occasionally would go out with his workfriends on nights out but wouldn’t invite me. He completely went off sex with me for a couple of months saying he’s tired, he’s been depressed, also we had lots of arguments as I’ve been unhappy, He went to see his friends (his hometown 4 hour drive) I needed to contact him but he refused to text or pick up his phone for the week, I don’t feel like I can relay on him, I phoned the letting agent to give up the flat, I’ve got 5 weeks left before moving out and have a job transfer, he’s told me he regrets the last 6 months and wish he could change it, I said he can move with me, he used to live there but he says it would be a step back and he doesn’t want to settle down as he wants to travel and do volunteering in different countries, I still love him despite what’s gone on I wish it had been different, i honestly saw him as the guy I’d marry and have kids with, we travelled a lot together and have many memories, in the last few day he kept telling me he loves me and hugging me and saying you never know what will happen in the future, he’s also said he’s maybe thinking of moving back but cannot afford for the next few months it’s messing with my head as he contradicts himself, I will miss the flat and him I’m scared I won’t be happy moving back, if he really loved me surly he’d move back to be with me, any advice would be amazing

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Guy's Behavior

Why did my ex bring me flowers after practically ignoring me for 2 months?

When me and my boyfriend broke up I was very, very hurt. He explained himself vaguely, but it turned out to be a lie. He lied to me about why he wanted to break up. Before we broke up there we were no signs that he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does this behaviour suggest?

Anonymous

(30-35)

- She always used to show flirty playful signs towards me and also lightly mock me etc. When I ignored her for a bit once she did a really shy smile then we had a long chat and when we

- She always used to show flirty playful signs towards me and also lightly mock me etc. When I ignored her for a bit once she did a really shy smile then we had a long chat and when we parted ways she really smiled with her eyes.
- so I asked her by text if she wants to meet for a drink and mentioned a bar I know she likes.
- She then replies “Adam mentioned we should go to the other bar down the road before it closes at the end of the month but you probably already went there with Ben?”
- I then say that’s a good idea & she blanked it so I said it would be good to go as a group and called her a sister.
- next time I saw her in person at a group meet, she was being happy with others and avoiding me. She became quiet when I was nearby and avoided eye contact with me, looking upset when I made eye contact. Asked if she was ok & she said why I am a bit tired. Then she became a bit better but still looked uncomfortable. train home was awkward with just us 2. I gave her a birthday card and she was happy. The card called her a sister.
- then at another social, I avoided her but she kept looking at me. When we spoke, she was happy again but then I made eye contact with her and she flinched.
- next time I saw her she went back to what happened before - avoiding me, talking to others and when I tried to talk to her looking unhappy. When getting train home, she went to shops first and mutual friend said to me “did she run away because she doesn’t want to get the train all the way with you?” And even asked her when she returned. She turned the question to me & said “I thought you were getting the other train until I said I’m getting this one. When we were alone on the train, was awkward. She pretended everything was ok but I could see the discomfort in her eyes.
- I know she’s afraid of being gossiped about. I told her I only see her as a friend. She became happy again. Although it’s always been a bit awkward ever since. I don’t think she cares as much when I avoid her.

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Is she trouble ! I like her alot?

This girl and I were close friends for years like tell each other every thing really close We then flirted a lot and became attracted her pupils go big each time we talk and she licks her lips when she looks at me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend is toxic to me?

I often find myself almost hating my girlfriend, she has told me after meeting my Friends that she hates them and told me i can't hangout with them anymore. while this can be understandable under certain circumstances,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys help, does he sees me as only a friend or something more?

I told him I'm starting to have feelings and thoughts I shouldn't, that I felt this wasn't a friendship anymore, that I'll always want the best for him and that I love him (as a friend, even though I have romantic...

pinkunicorn18

Xper 6 Age: 38

Relationships

What does it mean?

What does it mean when a guy you were with just suddenly stopped talking to you (Everything was fine there were no fights nothing) I had had enough of being ignored so I sent a longer paragraph this time I was responded...

Anonymous

(25-29)