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Sorry it's long

So I've been seeing this woman for a month now and I really like her, a lot. She's shy, awkward and weird (the way I like'em 😻), she's a virgin waiting until marriage just like me
(I never thought I'd find one).
But she is chubby (not fat), and she's been wanting to lose weight. I don't really like chubby women but since she said that she's on a weight loss journey I found that more attractive, and I want to support her as her lover.
She's been struggling with her motivation and only making it to the gym 2 days a week at most and can't stick to her diet. So I tried to find her an activity or sport that she'll like and will motivate her. I first brought her to my boxing gym, be she DID NOT like it, she said it's too scary and comparative, which I can understand, boxing in a masculine ass sport and she's just a little 4'11 softy, so I asked her about other sports like jogging club (hates running) and volleyball (got hurt in middle school gym class), I don't know what women like, but then butt building came to mind and I was going to recommend it but choked it back because I don't want her to think that I only care about her looks.
Butt building is like bodybuilding for female models where they work their glutes 3 times per week and everything else 2 times a week. I thought about this because it's not competitive, it's not violent or masculine, and it gives her something to work towards. But I didn't say it because it seemed like a dick thing to recommend, but I really want her to succeed.
I remember when I left HS I lost motivation to go to the gym since I wasn't playing football anymore, and by the time I was 21 I weighed nearly 300 lbs. But my cousin introduced me to boxing, which gave me a new purpose to go to the gym. Now I'm working out 6 days a week, I have an 8 pack and jacked, and I'm one of the best fighters in my gym despite having a later start than most of them, and I just want her to have a purpose too.