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Me and my boyfriend are working in the same store, but currently I work in a waaay different department and I'm lucky if I get glimpses of him throughout the day. He used to swing by to say hi as he would go to lunch or something, but he's not supposed to do that so it's not often. Like it's not allowed to be a habit. But the thing is, is that I HAAATE my job. There are days I literally wanna break down. Because in my particular job I stand in the same spot, all day, but I'm also in front of people all day, and having to just deal with a line of people. All. Day. Long. It NEVER stops. That said, my boyfriend works back in Automotives, like he's a car mechanic back there. I know some of the people back there, of course there's only one woman (and she only works like 3 days out of the week), but that department's sort of "secretary" guy is moving to the back to work on the cars, and he's highly recommended me to take his position, AND two of the under managers like me, and have suggested I work back there. Now the head of the department has officially offered me the job if I want it. It's a dollar raise, and my boyfriend has been wanting me to transfer back there for awhile. Plus I just like cars. Like I won't be working on them, but I'll know enough to get by over there when people have questions. And for the ones I don't know, I am allowed to ask the actual mechanics.

Now the problem is, is that I'm worried about working so closely with my boyfriend. We've got a pretty solid relationship, but I'm worried that being around him all the time might change that since we'd be co-workers? Should I still take the opportunity? It is a small raise.

Do you dislike more people who are opposite on the the political spectrum relative to your positions

or

People that waffle between stances, who tend to travel from one side of the spectrum to the other and change their stances often?

This isn't asking about people who are in the middle of the spectrum, whose opinions can vary but people that, for example, tend to agree with conservatives one week, then appear to agree with liberals the next, only to return back to conservatives the next day.

Just a vote will suffice, you don't need to explain unless you really feel a need to but please no unnecessary bashing of the opposite party, not looking for a shitstorm, thanks.

Okay sorry if this is a bit long, im just driving myself crazy and i need to understand what is happening here!
So there is this guy in my class (we are both 22), he is part of my group of friends and we have made causal conversation on and off, hung out outside of college as part of a group a couple times and done a good bit of group work etc. together. I only caught feelings for him in the last couple months and a few weeks ago he started acting like he might have feelings back, here is what makes me question it;
- he started waiting to walk from the car park to class with me a couple weeks ago.
- iv watched and he seems to mirror things i do quite a lot, like he will sit in the same position as me when we sit next to each other in class.
- he glances at me quite a bit.
- he tells me about his plans when we chat in the mornings.
- he started messaging me on facebook, the first time he asked a question about college and then kept messaging for an hour and a half or so, chatting about tv shows and other things, used lots of emoticons and ! marks.
- he messaged me most days this week, i messaged him on one of the days. When i said i had to go one day, he messaged later and asked how i got on, we talked for about an hour both times i think.

But here's what makes me confused;
-He changes his messaging a lot, sometimes he is using lots of emoticons and sometimes not at all.
- he starts a conversation but doesn't try to continue it and will leave the last message i send un-replied to sometimes.
- when i messaged him one day he didn't really try to keep the conversation going.

So what is happening here?
Does this guy like me?
What does he want me to say/do?
What SHOULD i say or do?
I just dont have much confidence with this sort of thing and i can't trust my judgement, it did feel like something was going on over the weekend but now it feels sorta colder?

Please help guys i am so confused! i just want to know whats happening!!