Search Results: does he take time to get over her

I’ve been with this guy for around 5 months and officially together for almost 3. I thought we had a great relationship and he clearly loves and adores me and does everything he can to provide and protect me, however one particular issue had come up twice. We spoke extensively about our sexual pasts because we believe we have a right to know what kind of person we’re getting into relations with, and there was a story he told me which didn’t add up. He got annoyed at me and attempted to gaslight me and make me feel crazy when I expressed my suspicions but it ended up coming out that he was telling me lies because he slipped up in his story.

I take gaslighting very seriously and was going to dump him, so I moved out for a few days. He extensively apologised and promised to be truthful and I decided to forgive him despite this red flag. I asked him a few times if there is anything else in his past that he thinks he should tell me and he strongly said no. A month after this whole incident I decided to go through his laptop which he is usually extremely protective over and I found a bunch of bookmarks of escorts near our area and their websites and various chat rooms.

This is very worrying to me because I am aware that he had an addiction to escorts and porn in the past but he gave me the impression this was long over. It is also highly possible that he could be cheating on me. I also feel betrayed because I specifically asked him if he had been meeting escorts recently when we first started seeing each other and he denied it. To me these findings mean he is either a cheater or a liar. He is at work right now and doesn’t know I have seen all of this but I am wondering if I should dump him tonight or not?

Hi!
I just wanted to share my opinion / things I've observed.

One of the biggest signs that you're fat is when you start wearing high-rise pants because low rise pants start to look worse and worse on you due to your belly fat.

I know a lot of fat people who would love to wear low-rise pants/skirts but they simply can't without getting a muffin top. Fat people don't wear high rise pants/shirts most of the time because of it's looks, they wear it because their excess fat would just spill out of of their pants/skirts if it wasn't wresting on their waist.

How does it look when a fit person wears low rise pants?

And how does it look when a fat person wears high rise pants?

Now, do you think the high rise pants would work with a fit person? Absolutely, there aren't any difficulties there.
But do you think that low rise pants would work with fat people? Not really, their belly fat would just spill all over it.

So yeah in my opinion/observation high-rise pants are typical "fat girl clothes".
If you are over average weight and you start wearing high-rise pants, that is pretty much just an admission of "Yes, I am fat." and it is painfully obvious. So personally I'm not touching high-rise pants with a 10 feet long pole.
And don't even get me started on one piece swimsuits, that is also so often "fat girl clothes" because fat people prefer to have some fabric hold/flatten their belly...

And that is the end of my take. What was the moral of the story/ the teachings of this post/ etc? Dunno, I just wanted to share my opinion on pants since clearly the universe was in a dire need of this information.