Search Results: finding yourself

Everyone should try dating someone of a different race, faith, or culture.

Everybody has a type, and the vast majority of us will end up dating several if not multiple people to varying degrees before meeting the person that we'd potentially spend the rest of our lives with. As times continue to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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"All men just want sex!" and why this shouldn't deter you from pursuing them.

I can't tell you how many times I've seen women say "Seems like all men just want sex right away. Aren't there any good men anymore?". Women need to stop looking at this as though it is a negative, and see it for what it...

WesTheGuru

Yoda Age: 35

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No Text! No call! No show! What happened? Why most relationships fizzle out!

No, text, No call, No show! So what happened? You met on a Saturday night, you had the perfect date, she held your hand, and at the end of the night, she kissed you. Then she texted your phone constantly. “WYD.”...

Wisenguber

Editor Age: 49

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Is There a Mr or Ms. Right?

Finding "The One" I think this probably has been talked about many times here. Here is #myTake on this one. In my experiences and observations, people tend to attract people that are in some ways "at their level", only a...

Bluegrimoire

Xper 5 Age: 42

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5 Ways To Be Successful

What is Success? Many people define success as having a lot of money, being the CEO in your company or being at the top of your field. Success is happiness and finding a balance of reaching your goals while remaining...

AshleyMD

Explorer Age: 30

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Break Up & Divorce

How do you stop yourself from thinking his treating you poorly is your fault because you're not "good enough"?

When a significant other withdraws and starts showing less interest and motivation to do anything special with you, how do you not feel defeated for not being the kind of girl that gives her guy butterflies? Before we...

Spgtmonster

Xper 4 Age: 36

7 Reasons You're Not Successful

1. You’re Not Self Aware College is the key aspect to success for many, but what if a degree wasn’t the true cause for success? Sometimes success isn’t an outcome because of what is known as unsuccessful thinking. Being...

Flawless_Glamorous

Xper 5 Age: 28

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Break Up & Divorce

Loving someone+realizing that he is one for you.. broke up now sending a letter to say thanks for loving me and showing me what love is?

Guys, would you read this letter from your ex? What are the do's and don't here? I dated this guy for a year and we've been broken up for about 4 months. I followed the break up protocol with no contact and took the time...

frenchie55

Xper 2 Age: 37

5 Tips to raise your self-esteem

I have seen many people on here say that they have a low self-esteem or don't know how to raise their self-esteem. I recently answered a question about it so I thought I would write about it here also in the hopes that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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How should I help myself get over the fact that every guy I have ever liked, rejected me?

Many guys have liked me, but none I could even try to get myself to feel something for. The ones who showed interest and who I liked back, always ended up rejecting me. Usually during the initial stages (first few...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The Unsettling Truth About Love in the Modern Age

Now I know I say I don't believe in Love.. and that Love is a lie...Do I believe this, yes.. but... it's not 100% accurate. First, lets look at, Love. Love is patient, love is kind.. Love is unconditional; Love is...

Betwyn

Guru Age: 35

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Girl's Behavior

Girls: What physical feature do you find most attractive in men?

When you see an attractive man (shirtless) what is the first thing you find yourself looking at? This is for finding out what girls like besides facial features.

greenymaco

Xper 5 Age: 32

When you see an attractive man (shirtless) what is the first thing you find yourself looking at? This is for finding out what girls like besides facial features.

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Do you think the attitude "que sera sera" is productive if you are searching for a gf/bf?

"que sera sera" in this context basically means don't put too much effort in finding the right one for you. If it is meant to be, then it is meant to be. Don't stress yourself.

grashopper

Yoda Age: 35

How do you show yourself you are worthy?

For a long time i tried finding happiness in guys, i wanted a boyfriend because I've never had one and i thought that was happiness. But honestly i realized i am the only person in this world who can prove to myself that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating for women over 30 or 40

Dating for women over 30 or 40 can be a special issue all on its own. Obviously, the dating and marriage trends vary wildly depending on where you live. I’m here in NYC and 30 is PRIME dating age for the women here. It’s...

Hunt-Ethridge

Xper 5 Age: 50

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Why do I have no luck with finding the right guy?

I understand the whole "love yourself and you'll find love" thing, but I seem to attract the wrong guys when I love myself. The guys end being one extreme or the other, i. e. smothering or conceited.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you keep your faith in finding love after a breakup?

How do you encourage yourself to believe that you will meet a new guy some day and you will have a great relationship?

Anonymous

(36-45)