Search Results: having second thoughts

I’m feeling such a disconnect?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a few months now but this last week has been very rough between us. He has been starting petty arguments due to his insecurities. We work at the same place to which I’m a manager and he...

Brittanymaexoxo

Xper 7 Age: 31

Dating

I’m confused by my ex-boyfriend’s actions and I don’t know if he’s having second thoughts or just wants to become friends? Opinions?

Its been a month since my ex-boyfriend and I have broken up and I'm still having a difficult time. We agreed that we still wanted to be close friends and get to know each other, but it hasn't gone that way. He has a...

SavannahSmith

Xper 4 Age: 23

Dating

When I get into a relationship, I stop liking the other person. What's wrong with me?

So in elementary, I had a crush on a boy in my class, but I was a quiet kid who didn't really speak (mind you, I've liked him for more than two years). He happened to be my best friend's friend, so she asked him about me...

Peerie

Xper 4 Age: 23

Dating

Can I get some help with my ex boyfriend and how to become comfortable around him again?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why do you like to answer in one or two words?

I went out with this guy for like two dates already and he wouldn't even say more than 2 words or make much conversation. I would ask "how was your day?" and his response "ok" and then we would get this awkward silence...

Albina_Lovely

Xper 7 Age: 32

Dating

How to know if a girl really likes me?

Well just as the title says. I have been talking to this girl, but every so often I get a nervous gut feeling. In addition, we would text every so often almost every day and some times call each other a lot. There would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Sorry I know it's long but please help me ladies. Long distance. Girl is acting distant... What do you think is going on here?

So I recently started seeing an ex of mine from a few years ago. I used to live in KC but moved to STL shortly after we broke up. She broke up with me because at the time I didn't take her very seriously. I was 26 and she...

jmsdtl321

Xper 3 Age: 39

Dating

Would you give someone a second chance after you put a restraining order against them?

I was wanting to know what most of you thought about this. I will give you a little back story, I was just starting a relationship with a single mother and I told her on the first date that I had injured myself in a work...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How do I deal with a having huge crush on this guy?

I met this guy in a youth orchestra two years ago and I guess it was his personality and his passion that make me so dizzy with him. I met him the first day I join the orchestra and he's the first to introduce himself to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I deal with a having huge crush on this guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Was I right to let her go?

I met this girl in summer and we hit it off. Lots of lust, passion and deep connection. We felt on the same wavelenght. After the fourth date, after making out (excl sex) for half an hour, she basically said she wanted to...

statist91

Xper 4 Age: 34

Dating

Did I do the right thing?

statist91

Xper 4 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

(Part 2) I'm a 34 year old guy and I fancy my 53 year old hairdresser. Is she into me or not?

She then said she needed to do some Christmas shopping before Christmas so we could do that together and grab a coffee. I just thought 'great' this is it- she does like me. From then on this is what I don't get- and...

Leedsfrenchie

Xper 4 Age: 42

Guy's Behavior

Why do some guys go silent after or during an argument?

So, a friend of mine is having boyfriend issues, he's a psycho. He got angry at her for meeting him tonight, when he said that they shouldn't meet until the end of the month. When they were together he kept saying to her...

incandescentwithsage

Xper 5 Age: 40

Health & Fitness

I Don't Know How I Feel About My Epilepsy...

Okay, my epilepsy has two forms, Tonic clonic and Myoclonic. Basically I have both stand up seizures and seizures that are more stereotypically thought about which is the seizing on the floor. I currently take 18 tablets...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

What is wrong with me when it comes to my love life?

When there's a guy I like they usually don't like me, or if there's a guy into me I'm not into them. I get nervous when it comes to meet people and afraid of being ghosted (which has happened) I feel like they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Am I right to be upset or is this ok with friends with benefits?

There's this guy - we've been intimate in the past but not dating exclusively. We're pretty cool with each other's company, a lot of chemistry but none of us wants long term dating so you could say we are FWBs. We have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

I Am Angry...Here's Why (Warning: This Will Get Controversial!)

Ok please no one consider me feminist here from the stuff I say, girl power rocks but some feminist ways are weird. I see both genders being equal. This myTake is pretty different compared to the usual music - oriented...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Other

How to proceed with this girl?

So I met this girl my first day in college at some freshmen mixer, we exchanged numbers and started hanging out a lot. She met me at 3am on labor day to climb a mountain and see the sunrise together. We baked cheesecake...

KingOfQ

Xper 4 Age: 27

Relationships

Men, Here Are Your 14 Greatest Qualities For a Healthy Relationship

(this is gonna be long...) I've recently been asked by too many people in private, what are the greatest qualities to have a healthy relationship in which you almost never fight and get along. Now, since I think...

r4ngeF

Xper 7 Age: 39

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