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I've never been in a relationship before so I don't know how any of this works.

I've been keeping track on my personal behavior patterns and found out that I'm more affectionate on some days than others, and some days I'm not affectionate at all. Some days I feel very loving, generous and want to kiss and cuddle, and some days I try to avoid any social contact with other people.

I'm wondering if you would find it odd or even suspicious if your partner would be normal one day and the next day out of nowhere he/she is bringing you flower, kissing you a lot, hugging you a lot, wants to cuddle all day and watch Netflix, or out of nowhere he/she is in their home office and just wants to be alone for a while.

When I do start dating I just want to be open about this. I don't want to put on fake emotions and I'd want her to understand. This doesn't mean I don't truly love her, it's just that some days my emotions are just different.

I'm not too sure how i feel about this but i am optimistic about it.
I've been dating lately, trying to find a girl who is tired of playing games or games getting played on her in relationships.
This girl out of all the other options for a companion, is just different from all the others, i'm not only attracted to her, but i feel connected to her in a way.

Okay so there's this girl i met on fb & I really like her a lot & we're in love with each other.
It was an instant mutual feeling as soon as we started talking.
Even though we haven't met in person yet, we already have such good chemistry it's as if we already knew each other (but we didn't).
We seem to have quite a bit in common with each other & we both seem to be seeking for a good relationship that will lead to a long term relationship.
However, it has come to my knowledge that her & my second older brother had sex in the past, years ago and long before she met or knew me.

She told me without trying to hide it,
here's what she said: #1 "I f***** bali 1 time but it was like 2 years ago and I know y’all are brothers and I just wanted u to know that before we start our relationship i wanna tell u everything so u will trust me ❤️💯"
#2 "Ugh I hope your not mad baby I just wanted to b straight up with you😩❤️‼️"
#3 "I really like you too baby and I wanna fw u rs that’s why I told you that I’m not keeping no secrets between us ‼️💯 I love you fr"
#4 "❤️🥰 good lets just put that in the past ❤️ I love you babi and. Wanna b with you forever🗣"

I don't know I feel like there is still hope for us being in a relationship and have a good life together, but i couldn't see me, her & my brother hanging out.
Your thoughts?

My boyfriend never had a good relationship with his parents and basically wants nothing to do with them. It was his birthday yesterday and he turned 17. His mom kept calling me a girl, she/her & my deadname/given name. I found that disrespectful. But I acted nice since it was my boyfriend's birthday. When he went to go to the washroom, she told me "I would like to call you by your given name, it's so beautiful & since you're pregnant, of course your a female" yet I have a transgender friend I know who works with her at a restaurant and she calls him; his preference name. Another thing is let's say someone name was Ken but they rather be called Kennedy (since I don't want to give out his name). His mom kept saying "Ken" when he would prefer "Kennedy" and she object to the idea of calling him that. Which he would fight with her all the way to the place in the car. His dad doesn't like it either but he at least calls me Damien. I may be pregnant but I don't ever consider myself a mother to it since that a female term for a women. I consider myself a caregiver instead or a parent or a father. My boyfriend will say you are " a motherly father ". But since I haven't had surgery (from not being old enough to afford it) and my parents are against abortion. I'm being mature, keeping the baby and holding off on my transition. Putting the baby needs over mine is what I say. But I don't see how that makes me a girl when I've seen trans man have babies since they want their own and still consider themselves a male. Everyone has their own opinion, and I never planned on having a child, maybe adoption when I was older. But even being pregnant I consider myself a male, just my body isn't until further notice. I wear binders still until it going to make my chest sore. Then I'll have to start wearing sports bras, not actually bras. But I'm going to wear male clothes throughout this time. His mom just doesn't help with her opinions, which I find mean since she's full-on Christian.