Would you date a girl who had sex with your brother in the past before she knew you?

[Massahbaby19]

I'm not too sure how i feel about this but i am optimistic about it.
I've been dating lately, trying to find a girl who is tired of playing games or games getting played on her in relationships.
This girl out of all the other options for a companion, is just different from all the others, i'm not only attracted to her, but i feel connected to her in a way.

Okay so there's this girl i met on fb & I really like her a lot & we're in love with each other.
It was an instant mutual feeling as soon as we started talking.
Even though we haven't met in person yet, we already have such good chemistry it's as if we already knew each other (but we didn't).
We seem to have quite a bit in common with each other & we both seem to be seeking for a good relationship that will lead to a long term relationship.
However, it has come to my knowledge that her & my second older brother had sex in the past, years ago and long before she met or knew me.

She told me without trying to hide it,
here's what she said: #1 "I f***** bali 1 time but it was like 2 years ago and I know y’all are brothers and I just wanted u to know that before we start our relationship i wanna tell u everything so u will trust me ❤️💯"
#2 "Ugh I hope your not mad baby I just wanted to b straight up with you😩❤️‼️"
#3 "I really like you too baby and I wanna fw u rs that’s why I told you that I’m not keeping no secrets between us ‼️💯 I love you fr"
#4 "❤️🥰 good lets just put that in the past ❤️ I love you babi and. Wanna b with you forever🗣"

I don't know I feel like there is still hope for us being in a relationship and have a good life together, but i couldn't see me, her & my brother hanging out.
Your thoughts?

Yes

No

[Roxi-]

Let me tell you something, Do not let this mess it up for you because Love is Love and a fling will never compare ☝🏼👏🏼💯 trust your lady she knows the difference between just getting what our bodies sometimes need and actual real love like you cannot fake a connection with somebody especially with a woman like that.
I have sex with friends with benefits no emotions but when I do like a guy it’s serious and nothing can break my loyalty because I know their special :).

[Massahbaby19]

I beleive you're right in what you said, i really want her to be my lady & she really wants me to be her man.. If loving this girl is wrong i don't want to be right 💛💯

[GhettoGirl]

Eh her having had sex with a brother years ago shouldn't be a deal breaker. You got to look at it as it was just sex, no whirlwind romance. So someone you love humped off into someone you think you love first and this somehow prohibits you from getting more than just a hump from this girl?

[Kwhatnow]

It’s okay that u like or liked each other. Love could evolve... could

It is still or part of history
But also history is accountable

Unfortunately
It counts too

I wish you could have had this (same) experience with someone who didn’t dated your brother, or fucked.

But, in fact, u do not. Not with THIS person


A special one, comes along, and does not carry this kind of (her making) unspecial things


Im in the same situation
I wouldn’t have had a problem with a thing, but it is just something I can not change

And nobody can.

This is just what happend and what she did

Yes. In the past

But I respect myself to much

Letting go of something or someone because of this, might not be the most funny thing to do...

But accepting this for a while or for now, just will sattle for more other things a like

If this is still an early stage, than the rescue just came up


THIS is a sign


YOU wouldn’t thing twice !!! If it really would be right


Sorry 4 u

But this is it

Let’s be men here


I still will miss my girl (better half to be) too

But it is just a thing I can not change


And I started to care


No ones fault ^^

[MsElizabeth96]

I Think this is just gonna cause problems and will get worse in the long run.

I Haven't been in that exact scenario, but I've been in similar ones where there was a potential issue at the beginning of the relationship which I chose to look past as i liked the person so much, but the more you fall for them the more it starts to bother you, until you realise you can't handle it like you hoped you could at the begining

If the fact she slept with your brother is bothering you now, it's only gonna bother you even more in the future

[Lauren-green]

No, I couldn't be with someone who had slept with one of my siblings. I would feel weird and uncomfortable, okay then your sibling could always bring it up to you if they felt like it. I don't know.. something is just awkward about that. I don't think I could do it, but if it doesn't bother you, then you do you 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Massahbaby19]

If we love each other, why not?

[Lauren-green]

That's what I meant when I said if it doesn't bother you, then you do you 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Anonymous]

I thought about doing that before.
It is really weird.
I guess it would depend how hot she is. If she's really hot that might distract me enough that I could put her and my brother out of my mind.

[Massahbaby19]

But what if you & your brother aren't very close & really love the girl?

[Opinion Owner]

My brother passed away.
She was just a woman he was rumored to have been with.
She was hitting on me.
I guess in your situation it's really only bad if you let it bother you.
I imagine once you bang her a few times you might forget about it.
I hope anyway.
Hmm... I guess it's just a pussy and maybe we shouldn't make such a big deal?
I guess the relationship with her is what's valuable.
I hope.
Life is short, I say go for it.
Let me know if it works out.

[Massahbaby19]

That sounds interesting to me.
Thanks for the advice and insight bro, & i will let you know how it went :)

[Opinion Owner]

No problem.
Just live in the moment, love her in the moment for as long as it lasts and have no regrets.

[Angelo75]

Bad idea.
He or She will be attracted to the other for the rest of your relationship.
Even if they tell u its not true.

It's a recipe for complications.

[Iron_Man]

No I would not

[Ricky6]

I don't know 😕

[Anonymous]

My brother is gay

[MsElizabeth96]

Uh, okay?