Guys, would you date or marry a girl who is waiting to have sex after marriage?
Uh yeah, you act like that's an odd request. And the FACT that ANYBODY thinks that way is just sad.
But also... not likely too many women my age waiting till after marriage to have sex.🤣
I've said many times our society is too oversexed. I say that's a lot of the ills of society. People don't really take the time to get to know someone anymore. Everyone's in a big hurry. FOR WHAT! Sex isn't that hard to find, people who love and care about you are. Slow down and savor time with them.
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Yes, since I am doing the same thing. I think that a lot of men who do this also can have a hard time finding women. I think that virgins really are even looked down on and it does not matter if you are a man or woman.
Since I am a Christian and that is my beliefs. Now I would date a woman who has had sex before but is now not doing that.
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If she is pretty and desirable enough so that I think I'm doing well and she is a prize, I'm willing to wait. However, after I propose and she accepts, I am going to pressure to give in. However, if she doesn't, I am not going to give up a prize just because I have to wait a bit longer. However, if she wants wait a year to get married, there is no guarantee our relationship will last that long so I will tell her to call me in a year or so when she is ready and if I am still available, I may consider her again.
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Waiting till after marriage is a huge gamble for all parties involved.
There is good sex and bad sex in this world and it comes down to people's compatibility in bed, which is completely none related to their compatibility as a couple.
So by waiting you will be rolling the dice on the sex you will have for the rest of your life.
Imagine if the guy is a two pump chump (has premature ejaculation) you are doomed to to have horrible 10 second sex.
By having sex before marriage you can go into it knowing what you're getting.
So you do you of course but waiting for marriage is something I absolutely do not recommend and would never do myself. 
I'm gonna tell you the reality:
No guy will ever date without sex. Unless he's a religious going church boy. Its only a matter of time before he disappears for a woman who is willing to have sex with him. Don't listen to the guys on GAG. They're all liars.-
Actually, I think it is cute that she thinks she can wait that long! After one month, I will tease her to the point of her tying me to the bed in the middle of the night and riding me like a motorcycle! We all have animalistic desires. Just the females who haven't been in touch with theirs have not been with the right guy. So many guys are about getting themself off, that they don't care if the female gets off. If a guy focuses on getting his girl off mentally and emotionally... he can break her will to remain a virgin physically.
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Tbh sexual compatability is very important to me in a relationship, and marriage isn't my immediate goal when initiating a new relationship, so "waiting til marriage" isn't exactly aligned with my current priorities. That said, if a girl is truly exceptional and I'm deeply in love with her, then I could potentially be willing to wait til marriage, although it would feel like an exercise in frustration rather than anticipation. Sex is to be enjoyed, not cordoned off and dangled as a future reward, in my opinion. But I can respect why not all women share that opinion, and I wouldn't think less of any woman who wants to "wait", it's just that it could impact our short to medium term compatability.
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No because waiting to have sex can rush marriage. All of this needs to come what’s natural and comfortable for the couple.
Rushing into a marriage will raise a giant red flag because then they aren’t getting married because it feels right they just wanna bang each other. -
I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. If the guy genuinely cares for you then your point of views and boundaries should be taken into account too when it come to relationships. If the guy always looking to have his way with you then its a possible red flag, then he may not have those strong feelings for you as you have for him since he ignoring your opinion or belief on the matter. But having said all that, in today's culture especially the younger generation, even also within the christian communities more and more people now seem to have sex before marriage. Its just the way things are like now.
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No sex wouldn't bother me, the issue is I don't know if we're sexually compatible. Because if we're not, I will divorce her.
Most people will look in the mirror and lie to themselves... I'm suppose to just trust we are?
Good decisions require good information.
So, no. - 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
As a woman I would never wait till marriage to have sex. Gotta try out that dick before I'm stuck with it forever
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Probably we would reach a point where we would have to talk things through
I would agree to wait or abstain so long as we could walk the bases otherwise. For me, a relationship is not complete without sexual intimacy. Put simply, if she doesn't make me cum, she will make me go. - 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
No , I need to test the waters before fully committing to her , make sure her and I have amazing chemistry outside the bed and in the bed , cuz without either of those the relationship will fall apart it’s best to find someone that has a lot in common and is on the same page with things before fully committing yourself to them
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No, I would not. I would wonder if she really had much interest in sex, as most people are not willing to abstain for ten years after puberty. "Saving myself for marriage" sounds like a convenient excuse to avoid thinking about it.
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And tou didn't want to relocate for him? Girrrlll I thought I was demanding.
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When I still wanted a wife, sure.
But today? She could be the perfect woman in every way and I will not marry her. It's the institution of marriage itself that has been ruined, not just men & women.
Besides, I enjoy peace & order too much to let a woman into my life lol - 533 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Were I not ALREADY Hand Fasted for 9 years, I might exploratorily 'date' but not become 'serious'
... a chivalrous 'mistake' I made in my first 'civil' service marriage. She changed detrimentally once
we were 'legal' even though it was an 'open marriage'. ~ -
I do not know about the men, but if i speak for myself i think i can not wait until marriage to have sex with the man i love. I want to know if we are sexually compatible and if we do not have sex, it is like we are just best friends. But i want to feel him. So, i would say no. If i found a man who wanted sex after marriage.
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In my young ages, I would have said yes. But now I'm not at an age where I do have all the time in the universe and more importantly I now understand the importance of sexual compatibility. So no, I wouldn't wait.
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Yah I would wait Then I would Fuck you all the Time.
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Currently, no. Because I'm not thinking about marrying any girl so I fail to satisfy such an important thing to her. But assuming I would be fine with marrying a girl I find suited, than yes. I would definitely date her. The only exception is if she is doing it for religious reasons, I don't date religious people.
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Im not giving you my thoughts until after marriage 😅😅
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