Guys, would you date or marry a girl who is waiting to have sex after marriage?

Question

Would you accept it? I'm lucky to find a man who has. I wonder how many are out there. Let me have your thoughts. Thanks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Uh yeah, you act like that's an odd request. And the FACT that ANYBODY thinks that way is just sad.
But also... not likely too many women my age waiting till after marriage to have sex.🤣
I've said many times our society is too oversexed. I say that's a lot of the ills of society. People don't really take the time to get to know someone anymore. Everyone's in a big hurry. FOR WHAT! Sex isn't that hard to find, people who love and care about you are. Slow down and savor time with them.

Whatever2929292 · Accepted Answer

Yes, since I am doing the same thing. I think that a lot of men who do this also can have a hard time finding women. I think that virgins really are even looked down on and it does not matter if you are a man or woman.

Since I am a Christian and that is my beliefs. Now I would date a woman who has had sex before but is now not doing that.

DWornock · Answer

If she is pretty and desirable enough so that I think I'm doing well and she is a prize, I'm willing to wait. However, after I propose and she accepts, I am going to pressure to give in. However, if she doesn't, I am not going to give up a prize just because I have to wait a bit longer. However, if she wants wait a year to get married, there is no guarantee our relationship will last that long so I will tell her to call me in a year or so when she is ready and if I am still available, I may consider her again.

ZackBan · Answer

Waiting till after marriage is a huge gamble for all parties involved.
There is good sex and bad sex in this world and it comes down to people's compatibility in bed, which is completely none related to their compatibility as a couple.

So by waiting you will be rolling the dice on the sex you will have for the rest of your life.

Imagine if the guy is a two pump chump (has premature ejaculation) you are doomed to to have horrible 10 second sex.
By having sex before marriage you can go into it knowing what you're getting.

So you do you of course but waiting for marriage is something I absolutely do not recommend and would never do myself.

shaysh87 · Answer

I'm gonna tell you the reality:

No guy will ever date without sex. Unless he's a religious going church boy. Its only a matter of time before he disappears for a woman who is willing to have sex with him. Don't listen to the guys on GAG. They're all liars.

TickleMe4ForFun · Answer

Actually, I think it is cute that she thinks she can wait that long! After one month, I will tease her to the point of her tying me to the bed in the middle of the night and riding me like a motorcycle! We all have animalistic desires. Just the females who haven't been in touch with theirs have not been with the right guy. So many guys are about getting themself off, that they don't care if the female gets off. If a guy focuses on getting his girl off mentally and emotionally... he can break her will to remain a virgin physically.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Tbh sexual compatability is very important to me in a relationship, and marriage isn't my immediate goal when initiating a new relationship, so "waiting til marriage" isn't exactly aligned with my current priorities. That said, if a girl is truly exceptional and I'm deeply in love with her, then I could potentially be willing to wait til marriage, although it would feel like an exercise in frustration rather than anticipation. Sex is to be enjoyed, not cordoned off and dangled as a future reward, in my opinion. But I can respect why not all women share that opinion, and I wouldn't think less of any woman who wants to "wait", it's just that it could impact our short to medium term compatability.

snowboarder720 · Answer

No because waiting to have sex can rush marriage. All of this needs to come what’s natural and comfortable for the couple.
Rushing into a marriage will raise a giant red flag because then they aren’t getting married because it feels right they just wanna bang each other.

shyguy1886 · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. If the guy genuinely cares for you then your point of views and boundaries should be taken into account too when it come to relationships. If the guy always looking to have his way with you then its a possible red flag, then he may not have those strong feelings for you as you have for him since he ignoring your opinion or belief on the matter. But having said all that, in today's culture especially the younger generation, even also within the christian communities more and more people now seem to have sex before marriage. Its just the way things are like now.

Nawlins34 · Answer

No.

No sex wouldn't bother me, the issue is I don't know if we're sexually compatible. Because if we're not, I will divorce her.

Most people will look in the mirror and lie to themselves... I'm suppose to just trust we are?

Good decisions require good information.
So, no.

Apple1996 · Answer

As a woman I would never wait till marriage to have sex. Gotta try out that dick before I'm stuck with it forever

Finchie40 · Answer

No , I need to test the waters before fully committing to her , make sure her and I have amazing chemistry outside the bed and in the bed , cuz without either of those the relationship will fall apart it’s best to find someone that has a lot in common and is on the same page with things before fully committing yourself to them

slatyb · Answer

No, I would not. I would wonder if she really had much interest in sex, as most people are not willing to abstain for ten years after puberty. "Saving myself for marriage" sounds like a convenient excuse to avoid thinking about it.

DermalPunch · Answer

And tou didn't want to relocate for him? Girrrlll I thought I was demanding.

Dargil · Answer

Probably we would reach a point where we would have to talk things through
I would agree to wait or abstain so long as we could walk the bases otherwise. For me, a relationship is not complete without sexual intimacy. Put simply, if she doesn't make me cum, she will make me go.

OldWorldOrder · Answer

When I still wanted a wife, sure.

But today? She could be the perfect woman in every way and I will not marry her. It's the institution of marriage itself that has been ruined, not just men & women.

Besides, I enjoy peace & order too much to let a woman into my life lol

TheorionMage · Answer

Were I not ALREADY Hand Fasted for 9 years, I might exploratorily 'date' but not become 'serious'
... a chivalrous 'mistake' I made in my first 'civil' service marriage. She changed detrimentally once
we were 'legal' even though it was an 'open marriage'. ~

Anonymous · Answer

I do not know about the men, but if i speak for myself i think i can not wait until marriage to have sex with the man i love. I want to know if we are sexually compatible and if we do not have sex, it is like we are just best friends. But i want to feel him. So, i would say no. If i found a man who wanted sex after marriage.

kinggeorge007 · Answer

In my young ages, I would have said yes. But now I'm not at an age where I do have all the time in the universe and more importantly I now understand the importance of sexual compatibility. So no, I wouldn't wait.

saintsRow3 · Answer

Yah I would wait Then I would Fuck you all the Time.

ImNoOne111 · Answer

Currently, no. Because I'm not thinking about marrying any girl so I fail to satisfy such an important thing to her. But assuming I would be fine with marrying a girl I find suited, than yes. I would definitely date her. The only exception is if she is doing it for religious reasons, I don't date religious people.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Im not giving you my thoughts until after marriage 😅😅

BCA6010 · Answer

Yes. It speaks highly of her self-worth, and chances are high that she shares similar values as me. Assuming she's telling the truth anyway.

Cubus · Answer

If she was worth it - yes.

It's not even from religious reasons. Studies show that the longer you wait with sex the better and more stable your marriage would be. If she is willing to wait then it's a sign she wants you and not just sex.

globetrotter22 · Answer

I could wait. However my greatest fear would be waiting it out to do the right thing and having her end up cheating. That would be beyond horrible.

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

That's me already. Do not think it is a wrong thing not even touching. Hope to meet my future wife soon.

t-8900 · Answer

Yes but only if she's giving me enough to fulfill my sexual appetites after marriage. that discussion needs to be had. 1-2 times a day for me.

RobT312 · Answer

No sorry , not for me. I’m 31, and have had sex for many years before marriage. I was not willing to wait nor would I want my girlfriend to wait. I think it’s important to know if you are compatible sexually

cth96190 · Answer

I would. What I found, though, was that mutual attraction and natural desire (lust) made waiting impossible for both parties.

Anonymous · Answer

You will weed out a lot of bad guys just doing that. It would be extremely hypocritical if one person sleeps around with many people then one day decides to be celibate until marriage though. Don’t be like those types.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Depends. If she's doing it for a religious reasons nope I be running otherwise I don't see a problem. Though not sure why anyone would do it if not for religious reasons.

Better_off_here · Answer

yes i would i mean love is not about sex alone.
i too would wait and i would try to make her happy if i could.
i am not all about sex as some men are.
we could take that time to talk and to get to know each other too.

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

Yes for sure because that means to me that sex is something special to her.

achilljoeythor · Answer

To be honest I'm not sure, I guess it'd DEPEND on how I felt about her and how strong my feelings would be for her. Some are probably WORTH the wait while others aren't. But I don't think sex with someone means anything BUT THAT you're ATTRACTED to them and want to "BONE" them!!. Sex doesn't necessarily mean you love them. Religion/faith and sex isn't intertwined or connected.

Jabberjaw · Answer

If she is okay with me sleeping with other women, then maybe if I think she's worth it. Her deciding to be celibate is one thing. Her expecting me to be celibate is a no.

Reaper1985 · Answer

opting to wait is typically because of strong religious and/or moral values. however since I don't plan to ever marry due to how relationship laws are these days. I would likely tell her that I am not the guy she is looking for long term.

CountryWanderer · Answer

Not only would I, it was my conviction as well. And I found someone who shared it!

ChasingtheWind · Answer

No. I would date a virgin that I love so much and take her virginity，which I actually did.

normalice · Answer

If she was on board with the "loopholes" until then, maybe.

Adam1978 · Answer

No since I have no interest in marriage, and even if I was I would buy the pig in the bag.

wa1t1ngFuture · Answer

ok of course i'm also not very interested in sex i never ask a girl to have sex even though we are already in a relationship...

torsion425 · Answer

Yes, I would definitely date or marry such a girl, in fact, it's a very common custom where I live. After all, it's her body, not my asset, she is free to make her own choices.

Slartybartfast · Answer

There will be plenty of time for celibacy when you're married..

Anonymous · Answer

Im avoiding sex for now anyways so I don't have anything to be upset about

DavidHart · Answer

i've done that and i kind of regret it. my sexual life suffered. Sexual compatibility should be confirmed before marriage in my humble opinion.

fonduegirl · Answer

No. But I'd date an asexual person. Because in their case, it's sexual attraction problem and not the marriage drama. No offense to you.

Guanfei · Answer

I don't mind. Considering the amount of sex I have right now, it wouldn't change anything.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If she is a genuine virgin, not "born again", or just playing a no-sex-for-simps game, than yes.

Raaj4you · Answer

No I will tell her that I want to sleep with you before marriage but on her lap and shoulder. 🥰 ❤

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I have come to the conclusion that I must do the same

Avicenna · Answer

No, I’d think she’s hiding something. No premarital sex, no engagement.

CasaNorba · Answer

hell no, saving it for marriage is a major red flag to me. it means she suppressing it for the only loser cuck who's gonna solve her problem

Anonymous · Answer

I would get pussy elsewhere.

A female who is holding out on pussy access is saying her only value is her holes and she is using access to it as a ransom to force a guy into a legal bond where he literally loses EVERYTHING.

It really says a lot about that female and what she has to offer.

Kenzy009 · Answer

If she is equal about it. I feel like it would just be a special rule when it comes to dating me, but if it was anyone else sudenly she has a list of excuses.

waleedv3 · Answer

I would only marry a girl who waited until marriage. I don't want a girl who was easy for other men and she would think about the men she had sex with before.
Most girl who aren't virgins are far more of train wrecks.

SexualTendencies · Answer

Absolutely! You could only be lucky to have found such a person. Especially if you're clase to age 30+. However, a virgin over 30 is uncommon but they do exist. It would still make me wonder if they may have an underlying problem or reasoning.

altdbob · Answer

At this point in my life absolutely not!  I am to damned old to be teaching someone about sex and how to do it.  I want someone who knows what they are doing and doesn't mind experimenting besides.

SlickRick24 · Answer

I would wait if she wanted to out of respect for her. I think it’s wrong to beg for sex she will tell you when she is ready.

GreatnessBack · Answer

No. It's old and played out mindset.  If anything, how about if people just wait longer before having sex, like a couple years. lol

TheFlak38 · Answer

Ah yes. The usual beta bucks rules every woman has for her beta orbiters.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Even thought I'm surely not the most horny guy on this planet, I had some doubts if I would have to marry someone I've never been intimate before.

Philyouup · Answer

i could i think, if i loved her ans thought she was exemplary. but that thang better spit nickels.

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