Guys, would you date or marry a girl who is waiting to have sex after marriage? (Page 2)
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Yes. It speaks highly of her self-worth, and chances are high that she shares similar values as me.
Assuming she's telling the truth anyway.
If she was worth it - yes.
It's not even from religious reasons. Studies show that the longer you wait with sex the better and more stable your marriage would be. If she is willing to wait then it's a sign she wants you and not just sex.
I could wait. However my greatest fear would be waiting it out to do the right thing and having her end up cheating. That would be beyond horrible.
That's me already. Do not think it is a wrong thing not even touching. Hope to meet my future wife soon.
Yes but only if she's giving me enough to fulfill my sexual appetites after marriage. that discussion needs to be had. 1-2 times a day for me.
No sorry , not for me. I’m 31, and have had sex for many years before marriage. I was not willing to wait nor would I want my girlfriend to wait. I think it’s important to know if you are compatible sexually
I would.
What I found, though, was that mutual attraction and natural desire (lust) made waiting impossible for both parties.
You will weed out a lot of bad guys just doing that. It would be extremely hypocritical if one person sleeps around with many people then one day decides to be celibate until marriage though. Don’t be like those types.
Depends. If she's doing it for a religious reasons nope I be running otherwise I don't see a problem. Though not sure why anyone would do it if not for religious reasons.
yes i would i mean love is not about sex alone.
i too would wait and i would try to make her happy if i could.
i am not all about sex as some men are.
we could take that time to talk and to get to know each other too.
Yes for sure because that means to me that sex is something special to her.
To be honest I'm not sure, I guess it'd DEPEND on how I felt about her and how strong my feelings would be for her. Some are probably WORTH the wait while others aren't. But I don't think sex with someone means anything BUT THAT you're ATTRACTED to them and want to "BONE" them!!. Sex doesn't necessarily mean you love them. Religion/faith and sex isn't intertwined or connected.
If she is okay with me sleeping with other women, then maybe if I think she's worth it. Her deciding to be celibate is one thing. Her expecting me to be celibate is a no.
opting to wait is typically because of strong religious and/or moral values. however since I don't plan to ever marry due to how relationship laws are these days. I would likely tell her that I am not the guy she is looking for long term.
Not only would I, it was my conviction as well. And I found someone who shared it!
No. I would date a virgin that I love so much and take her virginity，which I actually did.
If she was on board with the "loopholes" until then, maybe.
I do not understand.
Anal and oral. Some girls believe that isn't really sex.
Gosh. Ur a piece of work.
Eh. When I was younger I probably would have been fine with it but at my age notions of purity have become increasingly vague, so it doesn't make any sense to wait for long.
No since I have no interest in marriage, and even if I was I would buy the pig in the bag.
I don't understand the "pig in the bag"
It's a saying for buying something you haven't seen. In this case if the sex will be there in the relationship.
Okay. That is fair
ok of course i'm also not very interested in sex i never ask a girl to have sex even though we are already in a relationship...
Yes, I would definitely date or marry such a girl, in fact, it's a very common custom where I live. After all, it's her body, not my asset, she is free to make her own choices.