Guys would you date a girl that wants to wait until marriage?

[summerlove912]

[GuitarPlayerMan]

Yes, I am waiting to have sex until I get married also. So I would have no problem with it. I would have more of a problem if the girl I was dating was trying to pressure me into sex, because of religious reasons I will not let that happen.

[summerlove912]

Well that's good of you :)

[GuitarPlayerMan]

Thanks. :)

[GuitarPlayerMan]

To be honest that's why my ex and I broke up, she wanted me to do other stuff that I wasn't comfortable with and I said no then she got mad. Then our relationship spiraled down from there. But I found this great girl that goes to the same church as me... and so far we're good.

[summerlove912]

You are welcome!

[summerlove912]

Don't ever do something you don't want to do. That girl just wasn't right for you. It's good you found a girl who shares your same values and beliefs :)

[Keyspirits]

HELL TO THE FLIPPIN' YESSSS! Cuties like that are one in a million hard to find so it made meh worry everyday if ill ever find a cutie who has as much self respect in herself. Will u marry meh baby 💍

[summerlove912]

Thank you! Finally someone haha.

[Keyspirits]

4realz doe.. The best way to find one like u is through online. Thats why i wanna make u ma wifey 🌹

[summerlove912]

Haha

[Keyspirits]

Are u a brack cutie?

[The_great101]

I wouldn't date her then i know I wouldn't want to date a guy that wanted to wait

[ShocknAwem]

If by waiting you mean years before we can have sex then no. us men need that and without that its hard to move on. What if we wait till marriage then the sex is bad? We waited all that time for nothing.

[summerlove912]

If you truly love someone, how can sex be bad? You've built that emotional connection and that bond. Wouldn't sex be even better when you have that with someone?

[ShocknAwem]

There are a host of sexual chemicals that affect your mind and body during and after sex. If those don't connect sex won't be as fun no matter how well you know each other.

[summerlove912]

I don't know about that.

[ShocknAwem]

Look it up, plenty of articles and Doctor essays on chemicals released during sex.

[summerlove912]

We'll just agree to disagree.

[littlemermaid89]

sorry for interrupting, I have a thought about this, and I think maybe if both never really experienced sex then it would be no problem since both didn't have anyone to compare to, but if one is already experienced sex then they would think the same as @ShocknAwem , because I have a male friend, and after he experienced sex for the first time, he said it is important to have sex before marriage because of the same reason you stated before, and it was different when he was a virgin.

[AvalanceJD]

If it seemed the relationship is going towards marriage then yes, why not? In my opinion sex is 50% of a relationship though.

[summerlove912]

There's more to a relationship than just sex, so much more.

[AvalanceJD]

No doubt there are more than just sex. Although if we're talking about marriage, sex life is vital. That's my personal point.

[summerlove912]

Yes but if you really love someone and care about them, sure enough you would be willing to wait.

[AvalanceJD]

That's the problem with my first awful comment. It didn't make sense.

So to sum up, yes i would wait if i was really into a girl. Would respect that for sure.

[summerlove912]

Well that's good.

[JuicyBrain]

Nope ! Not interested. Just as I wouldn't buy a house without visiting first !

[summerlove912]

Ok then

[Ulyss]

Nah I wouldn't, I respect her decision to do so but that's not me

[summerlove912]

Even if you really loved her and knew she was the one?

[Keyspirits]

He doesn't eve LUV u to begin with silly LOL. More like guys like this only want a fawk buddy so dont even mess with them asker 💏

[Ulyss]

I've never been in love with women I've just been with them but I suppose if I met the one and she says this to me I would stay with her and marry her since she's the one but other than that no I would just go with some other girl

[NotMyUsername15]

Nope, unless I know it's something serious (marriage possibility) between her and I.

[NydusinExpo]

That feels like holding sex captive and asking for marriage as ransom lol

[fenixx0083]

Wellll...*I'm* not a virgin, sooo... I guess she wouldn't want to date *me*...

[summerlove912]

The question isn't if she won't marry someone who isn't a virgin. The question is if guys are willing to wait until marriage to be with girl.

[fenixx0083]

Ya, I don't have a problem with that. It's really just not a big deal.

[summerlove912]

That's good

[fenixx0083]

Ya, sex can be amazing, but it just isn't nearly the whole thing...

[summerlove912]

When it's with the right person.

[Omar5881]

I wouldn't date a girl who won't wait till marriage coz I am waiting myself

[summerlove912]

You're waiting? Good for you :)

[Omar5881]

Yup I am waiting and my girl is waiting too 😛

[summerlove912]

That's great! :)

[Omar5881]

Well kinda that's my culture lol 😛

[summerlove912]

Well you're respecting your culture, which is good.

[Omar5881]

Yup , wbu?

[summerlove912]

I share the same beliefs.

[Omar5881]

Relgion beliefs or that belief lol

[summerlove912]

Well both

[Omar5881]

Really u r Muslim nice to meet u sis 😊 where do u come from 😃 of I may ask

[summerlove912]

No I'm a Christian.

[Omar5881]

Lol misunderstood it's okie still u r my sis in humanity 😛

[summerlove912]

Haha sure thing :)

[Omar5881]

😊😊😊

[Anonymous]

Probably not, BUT, I would have to be a non virgin myself (which I am) ANDDDDDDDDDD she'd have to be OK with me masturbating etc.. (obviously I wouldn't cheat) but, you get the point

[summerlove912]

So you would wait then?

[Opinion Owner]

I said probably not, BUT

[summerlove912]

Ok then

[LoverMike]

NO, because I like sex and need it while dating

[LoverMike]

Are you waiting?

[summerlove912]

What if you really liked her or loved her, you still wouldn't wait?

[LoverMike]

no, not waiting. I'll maybe wait for her, but tell her I need to see others before getting married to the love of my life

[summerlove912]

So you'll cheat with other girls while dating her?

[JuicyBrain]

Cheating is when the other doesn't know about it... @asker

[summerlove912]

So you'll tell her you'll wait, just as long as you can have sex with other girls?

[LoverMike]

yes I would

[summerlove912]

Well that's horrible. You don't really love her in the first place, if you want to be with other girls.

[Anonymous]

No, because I like smart women.

[summerlove912]

What does smart women have to do with anything?

[Opinion Owner]

A woman who waits until marriage to have sex is as dumb as it gets. I wouldn't marry someone like that.

[summerlove912]

You're the dumb one to even think that. If she want's to wait until marriage, then it's her right too.

[Opinion Owner]

How am I dumb? I never said it wasn't her right; I said it was dumb: two different things.

[summerlove912]

Because you shouldn't say it's dumb to wait to until you get married to have sex. Someone people value that very much and it's strong in their beliefs. If you really loved the girl and cared about her, you wouldn't wait?

[Opinion Owner]

I couldn't even like her if she thought of sex as the end-all, be-all of human existence, let alone love her.

[summerlove912]

You're not understanding the question. The girl doesn't think of sex as the end-all, be-all of human existence, as you put it. She thinks of it as something amazing and wants to share it with someone she truly loves when she's married. You can't like or love someone like that?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd have to know what other traits she has.

[summerlove912]

She has the kind of traits you like and she is wife material.

[Opinion Owner]

Isn't that a shortcut? Ha ha! Putting it that way, it's obvious that I'm going to say yes.

[summerlove912]

Yes it is. You're dating a girl and you know she's the one, but she wants to wait until marriage and it's good you said yes finally haha

[Opinion Owner]

Ha ha ha!