Refering to girls who have had boyfriends or have hooked up as “leftover”?

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When I talk with some male relatives of mine, and the topic of girls comes up, some of them refer to girls that have had many boyfriends or sexual encounters as “leftovers”. For example, a couple of days ago my brother was telling me the time when he hooked up with a certain girl, and weeks later a friend of his hooked up with the same girl, and my brother told me that he would never date or have sex with the “leftovers” of a friend of his.
What do guys and girls think about this? Guys, would you date a girl who was the girlfriend of an acquaintance of yours? Girls, how do you feel about being called this way?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's a negative phrasing but personally I have zero interest in women that have taken part in hookup culture. The problem is a lot of guys will sleep around with the same girls they label as 'left over' but they will then talk about how they won't date or marry them.

But If you are a valuable man, you will look at the value of any woman on all levels and that means her past, present, behavior, how she treats others, how she treats her own body, family, how she treats sex, how she views her sexual power and feminine energy and much more. I can guarantee that this will never change and men will either do it silently or make noise about doing so. But most will always do it, even if they don't realize doing so (subconscious level).

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

That’s pretty tough assessment of another. I have had guy friends say,”you going to screw Andrew’s left overs.” Guys do that but it is very crude thing to do.
Never do that in front of any woman. That’s really hurtful.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

I think it's funny because the men who tend to openly say things like that tend to be leftovers themselves. That said, I feel the same way towards men.

Gen_Z_Rando · Answer

This just sounds a bit messed up, doesn't it? Like in what world is having had multiple partners a bad thing? Isn't experience something we should value, if you're the guy who can make a girl fall in love with you for something beyond the sex, then isn't it more substantial the more experienced she is?
Being a virgin (romantically or sexually) doesn't mean a better relationship, does it? Just means you've learnt a lot about yourself and you *might* be a bit impulsive or have poor choice in the guys you date.

Refering to girls who have had boyfriends or have hooked up as “leftover”?

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