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Alright everybody, I need a little advice on what my next move should be with a couple of my guy friends

So a couple of hours ago I nearly had to beat the hell out of one of my(or so I thought) closest friends. I Haven't seen these guys in a couple of weeks now, but after tonight I found out that they had actually been avoiding me.

So last night me and my fiance go out we ended up hitting this random bar and bam all my friends are there. I'm excited as hell thinking this is gonna be an awesome night with my girl and my bros. Nope, wrong, when I go over and try to talk to these guys the first thing I hear is "man get the f*** away from me".

Im thinking they're joking, hell even my fiance thought they we're joking. Until my oldest friend finally spills everything saying

"you have to be the s****est person I know to pull some bulls*** like that in front of our wives and kids. Its like my wife keeps talking about it just to make me feel bad like I'm not doing enough. So thanks for making me look like a s*** husband bro. Sorry I can't have someone die and leave me money to do whatever with. Now get out of my damn face" And he pushes me and I rocked his a** in the face

Lets pause for a second and I'll explain what he meant by all of that

First:

"Sorry I can't have someone die and leave me money to do whatever with" My senior year of high school my grandma passed away and left me a nice chunk of cash most was spend on paying for college. The rest got me a car and three houses, two I sold made a nice profit on. The third, I kept "as is" and earlier this year I fixed it up and now its me and my fiance's place. After that everything else was put into savings been sitting on all of it until recently.

Second:

What he meant by the rest of it? Well a few weeks ago I proposed to my girlfriend. It was awesome we were on vacation with friends. A vacation I'd paid for meaning no one had to pay for anything other than things they wanted. I took care of traveling, food, alcohol, and even the places we visited and things we did I took care of it. It wasn't to "show off" it was to show some love to the people I thought I could consider family. You know give them a stress free week in the Florida keys, while proposing to the love of my life. Just wanted them to be apart of it. The main thing that the women in the group talked about and loved the most wasn't just the proposal but what I did for my fiance's daughter.

A little after proposing to my fiance I called the little one over. Again got down on one knee and I gave her a promise necklace. Basically telling her that from this moment on, just like with her mom I promise to put their lives before mine. That I promise to take care of her and help her do the right things, and I made her promise that with any boys she likes I have to meet them first before she could start dating them.(she can't date until she's 30 hahaha)

And all of that is what has pissed this guys off, what has led me to hitting one of my friends