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So basically I realize how irrational I'm being but I get really anxcious and tend to get really worked up (Heavy breathing, heart beats faster, mind goes on overdrive) when I know my boyfriend has been talking to his friends that are girls. The thing is, it's all innocent coversation. It can be talking about cats, to sending silly face pictures, but it still makes me incredibly jealous cause it feels like I'm "sharing" him per say, I know it's just a friendship but it feels like even if it's innocent things, that he's bonding with them in some way.

They're only online friends which I think is the part that bothers me because we blossemed our relationship online for 4 years long distance before we actually moved and started living together. Now that we live together we don't text/online chat as much as we used to (obv cause we see eachother everyday, go out, do things, talk in person, cuddle, etc)

My insecurities/jealousy have become over wheming to me now and I don't even know how to stop my mind from overthinking a situation and then I just get irritated with him even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want to stop him from having female friends, I just don't understand why he just can't have guy friends only... Pleaseee if anyone has any advice/tips for me on dealing with my jealousy situation I would love to hear it! =[ I don't want these insecurities of mine to ruin our otherwise perfect relationship.

Ps. I've talked with him about it so much to the point where he would stop talking to them if I wanted him too, just so I don't bring it up again. I just don't want to be controlling but I can't help the way i feel =[

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I am well aware he is VERY shy around girls, cause he has no experience with girls, cause he graduated from an all boy highschool. My friend sat on the same table as him once, and he and his friends didn't speak even a word. And he only hangs out with his group of guy friends 24/7.

But I thought he was interested in me cause I saw him staring at me, a lot. So I decided to make a move, and added him on facebook and started chatting him. But the problem is,

- I always start the converstation, and he never messages me first
- his replies are generally very short
- he only asks me questions back sometimes

But the reasons why I keep trying:

- he declined all 3 of my friends requests, but accepted me
- he consistently replies
- he replies really fast now

If he was not interested would he reply me for 2 weeks? Should I just ask him out?