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I've been working with this girl at a second job. I used to see her 1-2x a week. Well the place we worked at is having some issues with their liquor license, so its shut down temporarily. We had plans to meet up at the place we worked at on Friday because I wouldn't see her Thursday since she had off that day. Well little did we know the place would be shut down by the end of the week.

Anyways, we talked about what happened and that maybe we could meet up on Friday night to go out. Well we ended up doing that. She texted me at like 1030 asking where I was, she knew I was pre-gaming at my place with my sister and her friends and my friends, becuase I had invited her and her friends to come and join us. Anyways she asked where i was and I told her we were leaving shortly, I didn't get to the club till around 1115? We met up, took some shots, danced, were VERY VERY close to one another (as far as face and body goes). I was so tempted to just kiss her and spark things up a little. I never did, but I'll tell you why shortly. First I'd like to tell you what happened the rest of the night.

Before she left with her friends to go to another club, she tapped me on eh shoulder and kissed me, but I wasn't really expecting it, I t wasn't like make out or anything, just a kiss...

I texted her about 10-20 min later and asked where she was, she ended up being where I was, she came over and found me and we danced some more and again, very close to one another...nothing happened there either. OK so now its 2am and its closing time so me and my buddy start walking home. she's texting me and all and we text till about 330...simple stuff, like what's up, wanna hang out, asking her if she's OK and if she needs me to get her and her friends since they aren't from the city really. We continue to flirt through text.

here's the deal - I like this girl, but I'm scared...now lets go back to where I told you I didn't kiss her or attempt to - why you ask? OK this is why...she has a boyfriend! AHHHH it figures, the one girl I start to crush hard on (after my 3 year relationship that ended horribly) has to have a bf.

it seems she likes me, but is scared? maybe because she isn't sure what to do with her bf? I mean she did kiss me, we have the craziest sexual tension between each to her...it feels great when we hang out and we both love each other company...

so what's my next step? I'm not a relationship destroyer but I mean, she doesn't have a ring on her finger and I've no where made attempts to be "that guy". I haven't spoken to her since Friday night Because she has been away, but I haven't made any attempts. Would it be wrong to send her a text just saying "hi" today?...do I wait for her to text me?

i know ill be judged and called a scum bag Because she has a boyfriend, but she came onto me...i never once made her to forced her to do anything she didn't want to do...

advice? what do I do? what are my next steps?

This girl I work with, extremely cute and sexy. In 2 years, this is the first big crush I have had since my break up with my ex. This girl is fun, energetic, its like a breath of fresh air.

Here's the problem, she has a boyfriend. She told me within the first week of meeting me that if she didn't have a boyfriend, she would def go on some dates with me and probably date me.

Well its been about 3-4 months since I started the job and she is still with him, yet she hits on me all the time and has told me she wants to hook up...i know girls like to play games, usually for attention, but I don't give it to her whenever she asks for it or needs it...its not my kind of game...but you would assume she would stop after a while of getting the point that I'm not just gonna give her attneiton to give her attention...

Anyways, she seems held back, by that I mean she talks bout her boyfriend and that she loves him, but that she doesn't get to do things with him that she wishes she does...like go out and dance, he just won't dance with her, she hasn't been out on a date with him in ages...she went camping last weekend but that's not a date, esp when its with like 40 people.

Shes a great girl and she deserves to be treated well...i want to take her out and do those kind of things for her, show her its OK to go out with your boyfriend and have a good time but also be able to go out with friends and not worry about the other...to just be chill and relax a little...i guess this is where I get confused and am not sure what to do...

I know there are people out there that will say, stay away from her, she has a bf...i understand that

but at the same time, aren't those who are taken worth fighting for? its not like she's married and has kids so I'm not home wrecking, its just boyfriend/girlfriend and sure I'd be pissed if I was in a relationship and a guy did that - but it all comes down to hating the game and not the player...i just don't know if I should waste my time?

she shows she's interested in me in many ways, I'm just not sure if its sexual or if she's looking for me to treat her properly?

I'm not a bad guy, I'm really just looking to take care of a girl who deserves to be treated properly and for a girl to show me some TLC...I'm not asking to be wined and dined weekly or whatever, I just wish there was someone who would want to take the time to make me happy...i guess I'm just confused at what I'm doing wrong -

girls what are your opinions on what I can do to make myself more available? is this girl worth fighting for? by that I mean should I take my time and show her I care about her, maybe ask her out and see where it goes - not like boyfriend/girlfriend out but like a weekend night out to let her have some fun, do you think there is a chance she would break up with her boyfriend for me or at least to see where we could go with what she has said to me and her attraction towards me, or is this strictly a thing where she wants to hook up and nothing more?...or am I just wasting my time here.