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I’ve only used dating apps for meeting guys. I’ve been off for a few months. When I was on them, the better looking guys were jerks or flighty/wanting sex. The unattractive guys were usually interested but had decent personalities. And when I attracted a decent looking guy with an okay personality, they were always my weight or only an inch taller. Is it weird that I failed to attract a guy that was good looking, decent personality and taller than me?

I’ve only used dating apps to find a date. I’ve been off for a few months. When I was on them, the better looking guys were jerks or flighty/wanting sex. The unattractive guys were usually interested but had decent personalities. And when I attracted a decent looking guy with an okay personality, they were always my weight or only an inch taller. Is it weird that I failed to attract a guy that was good looking, decent personality and taller than me?

I’ve only ever used dating apps to find a date. I’ve been off for a few months. When I was on them, the better looking guys were jerks or flighty/wanting sex. The unattractive guys were usually interested but had decent personalities. And when I attracted a decent looking guy with an okay personality, they were always my weight or only an inch taller. Is it weird that I failed to attract a guy that was good looking, decent personality and taller than me?

Here are some pictures of (in my opinion) attractive women (both before and after).

I often hear how men prefer natural, makeup free women but most of the time it's just them liking the "no makeup" makeup look.

In these befores and afters you can see the reality and then a decent still in limits makeup look with around average amount of foundation and makeup (no "caked" faces).

Do you still prefer natural over makeup?
I'd be really grateful for honest answers! Please vote even if you add a comment.

I am venting and know I might get some hate for this. I’m 26 with no real dating history. I’ve had a short term relationship which was absolute shit. I was told in HS and college to wait it out, be patient and focus on your education. Years later, I’m graduated, own my place and have a decent living. I don’t necessarily want kids but I just don’t get my lack of suitors. I know I’m not a ten, at least cute. People have complimented my looks, I struggled with my weight growing up. I was chubbier so I can see how in Hs I was overlooked. Now I’m thinner, I gained a bit of weight during COVID but am close to my smallest weight from 3 years ago. I looked alright in college and never got approached. I hate when people ask why I don’t have a man and while that question can either be a compliment or just a dig to get into my business, I wonder myself. I’ve been on the dating apps for years and have called quits, was on and off. I was just frustrated with the guys that came my way. I always attract the men I would not want to date physically, hence why that short term relationship I had did not work. On the rare occasion I send a message first, it fizzled out very quick. When guys message me first, it goes a little further. The cute guys are usually dicks, the decent looking guys are alright but a little too short for my preferences and the less attractive guys are always pursuing. They have decent personalities but just not what I want in a man. Am I just cursed or too picky?