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When looking for a life partner, do you find yourself looking more for a younger girl who makes you feel more like a man because you provide for her and care for her and so make considerably more money and treasure her with gifts, or do you want an equal/ strong and smart woman who challenges you (in a good healthy way) and a woman who provides for herself and isn’t “baby”

My Pick is Sugar Ray Leonard. Smart , Quick, boxed the top boxers of his day multiple times. Don't say Tyson , a guy that was beaten by boxers not in top 100. Don't say Maryfeather , he always tried to avoid the better fighters.

There are two guys I know who are pretty good friends. The question is end up the most desirable and successful in life? So who is going to be doing better in 25 years if we can check on them again. I will describe them to you and you decide who will fare better in life. And make your choice and explain your belief.

Guy 1:
Guy 1 Is 25 years old and is recent college graduate. He met guy 2 while working a blue collar job to sustain himself and worked through college and graduated college with no debt, owns his own car lives in his own apartment. He now works at a decent tech company. He is a hard working person, learns quickly and moves with purpose and vision. He's a thin, fit guy who is very dedicated to fitness and loves to go to the gym. He's very young looking for his age, couldn't grow facial hair on a bet. He likes to read and likes to learn new things. He's got lots of interests and he's strong and smart. He has dated, and had a couple of relationships, moderate dating and he can fairly easily get a date, in fact women ask him out some times.

Guy 2:
Guy 2 is 24. He still works at the blue collar job, but he's trying to get a better job in the industry and he's about to get it. He, however, has not been to college in fact he did not even graduate high school. He dropped out because he got his girlfriend pregnant at 16 had had a baby with her. He has been already married and divorced. He lives paycheck to paycheck, barely sustaining himself in the trailer that he rents with his child. Though not educated guy 2 is good with numbers and is just good at math generally. He too, is a hard working guy and he tries to do the right things, but he has a child and it's harder. He's a good looking thin guy that doesn't care for the gym he gets enough exercise at work, but he's fairly confident. He doesn't date much, but he has had a fair share of brief hookups.

I tend to attract much younger women easier than women my own age. I had a fling going on with a 22 year old a few months ago. I’ve been recently texted up a 21 year old but swings from interested to flighty.

This has its advantages and disadvantages. On one end I’ll admit younger girls are usually hotter, more energetic and fun. Ironically I can be less guarded with some of my own vulnerabilities AFTER I establish a connection. I notice women closer to my age seem to get smart in the wrong ways (they find flaws quickly, fixate on them and reject prematurely).

But on the flip side I have to be very careful with younger women when it comes to avoid “the creep“ vibe. It’s just too easy to just say one wrong thing in beginning and it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it’s intentional or not. I can’t get away saying a fraction of things I used to say in my youth.

But then I get worried about coming off as boring. Yes younger women like maturity in older guys but I got to be playful. But again it’s a pain in the ass that I have to be careful about joking around (e. g. sexual stuff). I was never the type to use pick up lines or make sexual comments right away but still. How would you like an older attractive guy to start a conversation with you?

5' 10"
Soft silky black hair
Beautiful dreamy brown eyes
And on top of all the great physical characteristics, I am also really smart. Believe me, I'm really good at math. I've counted to infinity twice.