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It sure seems like one heck of a lot of work. Everywhere you look on the internet, you see articles like "14 Ways Science Says You Can Be More Attractive" and "Can't Get A Girlfriend? You're Doing It Wrong!"
Then, at the end, it's nothing but heartbreak and fighting over who actually bought that futon.
And if you decide for yourself that "I'm giving up on finding a girl," people are like, "You're only hurting yourself!" Well, sounds to me like I'm dodging a bullet, not hurting myself.
I don't know. Maybe it's good enough to justify all the crap. What do you think?

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me yesterday. It was very sudden and I had no idea she wanted to end it. But when she told me I asked why (she gave some bullshit generic response) and then I said "okay, fair enough," smiled at her and walked off. I tried to make it seem like it didn't bother me that much and that I'd have no problem finding a new girl.

Truthfully, I spent the whole night crying. I love her so much. One of the pillows on my bed still smells like her so I spent the whole night holding it tightly, which is incredibly sad.

But my question is: what is the best way to handle a breakup if you want the girl back? Did I do the right thing?